Sunday Meditation Group
May 17
-"The Blessing of Your Goodness"
-in the practice of cultivating appreciative joy we make a proactive effort to recollect certain blessings. to this end, it is profoundly important for us to reflect on the blessing of our goodness. in doing so, as the Buddha teaches, we reflect on the blessing of our generosity, our virtue, and the effort we make to train the mind and open the heart. of course, this practice is, for most of us, a challenge. we're not accustomed to reflecting on our goodness. to the contrary, our habits of mind may be toward self criticism and negativity. it's very important, therefore, that we put in a wholehearted effort to cultivate the recollection of our goodness. we do this in meditation, in brightening the mind. and we do this in all our postures, as we go through our days. if we put in the effort, little by slowly, we connect to the truth of our goodness. we cultivate appreciation. we know joy.
-some things to to remember as you learn to develop the reflection on "the blessing of your goodness...
1-we cultivate appreciative joy by reflecting on certain blessings....
-foll0wing the Buddha's teachings, we learn to reflect on these four categories of blessings....
1-our goodness....
2-the goodness of other beings....
3-the goodness of the dharma....
4-the preciousness of life....
2- it is very important that we make an effort to reflect on the blessing of our goodness...
-as we reflect on our goodness, as we cultivate appreciation for our goodness...
-we develop in concentration....
-we make an efffort, on an ongoing basis, to develop our goodness....
-it's a challenge for many of us to practice this reflection.....
-our tendency may be to neglect this reflection....
-do you practice this reflection....?
-if not, why....?
-can you make a commitment to yourself to practice this reflection on a daily basis....?
-instead of acknowledging our goodness, our tendency may be to....
-engage in self criticism....
-engage in negativity....
-for this reason, it is particularly important to reflect on the blessing of your goodness....
3-in reflecting on our goodness we learn to reflect on three specific qualities ...
-we reflect, in reminding ourselves of our goodness, on....
1-our generosity.....
-the effort we make to offer...
-the gift of our resources.....
-the gift of our time & attention....
-the gift of the dharma....
-the gift of fearlessness....
2-our virtue.....
-the effort we make to practice....
-five precepts....
-skillful action....
-our deeds....
-our speech....
-our thoughts....
3-our effort & determination....
-the effort we make to develop the path.....
-to train the mind and open the heart.....
-in meditation.....
-in all postures.....
4-in recollecting the blessing of our goodness, we practice repeated reflection...
-we practice on an ongoing basis....
-in meditation....
-in all postures....
-we understand that the practice is one that we engage in, with determination, over a period of days, weeks, months, years.....
5-if we continue to reflect on our goodness, gradually we come to know the blessing of our goodness...
-over time, we practice with determination....
-in reflecting, we....
-remember the blessing of our goodness....
-using fabrication....
-allow the reflection to become felt, in the body.....
-gradually, we connect to the heart....
-as me continue, over time, to reflect.....
-we gradually know the blessing of our goodness ... in the heart....
-reading.....
-"Taking Joy" (from The Skill of Living)
-"The Blessing of Your Goodness"
-in the practice of cultivating appreciative joy we make a proactive effort to recollect certain blessings. to this end, it is profoundly important for us to reflect on the blessing of our goodness. in doing so, as the Buddha teaches, we reflect on the blessing of our generosity, our virtue, and the effort we make to train the mind and open the heart. of course, this practice is, for most of us, a challenge. we're not accustomed to reflecting on our goodness. to the contrary, our habits of mind may be toward self criticism and negativity. it's very important, therefore, that we put in a wholehearted effort to cultivate the recollection of our goodness. we do this in meditation, in brightening the mind. and we do this in all our postures, as we go through our days. if we put in the effort, little by slowly, we connect to the truth of our goodness. we cultivate appreciation. we know joy.
-some things to to remember as you learn to develop the reflection on "the blessing of your goodness...
1-we cultivate appreciative joy by reflecting on certain blessings....
-foll0wing the Buddha's teachings, we learn to reflect on these four categories of blessings....
1-our goodness....
2-the goodness of other beings....
3-the goodness of the dharma....
4-the preciousness of life....
2- it is very important that we make an effort to reflect on the blessing of our goodness...
-as we reflect on our goodness, as we cultivate appreciation for our goodness...
-we develop in concentration....
-we make an efffort, on an ongoing basis, to develop our goodness....
-it's a challenge for many of us to practice this reflection.....
-our tendency may be to neglect this reflection....
-do you practice this reflection....?
-if not, why....?
-can you make a commitment to yourself to practice this reflection on a daily basis....?
-instead of acknowledging our goodness, our tendency may be to....
-engage in self criticism....
-engage in negativity....
-for this reason, it is particularly important to reflect on the blessing of your goodness....
3-in reflecting on our goodness we learn to reflect on three specific qualities ...
-we reflect, in reminding ourselves of our goodness, on....
1-our generosity.....
-the effort we make to offer...
-the gift of our resources.....
-the gift of our time & attention....
-the gift of the dharma....
-the gift of fearlessness....
2-our virtue.....
-the effort we make to practice....
-five precepts....
-skillful action....
-our deeds....
-our speech....
-our thoughts....
3-our effort & determination....
-the effort we make to develop the path.....
-to train the mind and open the heart.....
-in meditation.....
-in all postures.....
4-in recollecting the blessing of our goodness, we practice repeated reflection...
-we practice on an ongoing basis....
-in meditation....
-in all postures....
-we understand that the practice is one that we engage in, with determination, over a period of days, weeks, months, years.....
5-if we continue to reflect on our goodness, gradually we come to know the blessing of our goodness...
-over time, we practice with determination....
-in reflecting, we....
-remember the blessing of our goodness....
-using fabrication....
-allow the reflection to become felt, in the body.....
-gradually, we connect to the heart....
-as me continue, over time, to reflect.....
-we gradually know the blessing of our goodness ... in the heart....
-reading.....
-"Taking Joy" (from The Skill of Living)
| skill_of_living_taking_joy.pdf |
"Furthermore, there is the case where you recollect your own generosity: 'It is a gain, a great gain for me, that — among people overcome with the stain of possessiveness — I live at home, my awareness cleansed of the stain of possessiveness, freely generous, openhanded, delighting in being magnanimous, responsive to requests, delighting in the distribution of alms.' At any time when a disciple of the noble ones is recollecting generosity, his mind is not overcome with passion, not overcome with aversion, not overcome with delusion. His mind heads straight, based on generosity. And when the mind is headed straight, the disciple of the noble ones gains a sense of the goal, gains a sense of the Dhamma, gains joy connected with the Dhamma. In one who is joyful, rapture arises. In one who is rapturous, the body grows calm. One whose body is calmed experiences ease. In one at ease, the mind becomes concentrated.
"Mahanama, you should develop this recollection of generosity while you are walking, while you are standing, while you are sitting, while you are lying down, while you are busy at work, while you are resting in your home crowded with children."
(AN 11.13)
"Furthermore, there is the case where you recollect your own virtues: '[They are] untorn, unbroken, unspotted, unsplattered, liberating, praised by the wise, untarnished, conducive to concentration.' At any time when a disciple of the noble ones is recollecting virtue, his mind is not overcome with passion, not overcome with aversion, not overcome with delusion. His mind heads straight, based on virtue. And when the mind is headed straight, the disciple of the noble ones gains a sense of the goal, gains a sense of the Dhamma, gains joy connected with the Dhamma. In one who is joyful, rapture arises. In one who is rapturous, the body grows calm. One whose body is calmed experiences ease. In one at ease, the mind becomes concentrated.
"Of one who does this, Mahanama, it is said: 'Among those who are out of tune, the disciple of the noble ones dwells in tune; among those who are malicious, he dwells without malice; having attained the stream of Dhamma, he develops the recollection of virtue.'"
(AN 11.12)
We must trust ourselves. We have everything in us that Buddha has, that Christ has – we’ve got it all. But only when we start to acknowledge it, is it going to get interesting. Our problem is we’re afraid to acknowledge our own beauty. We’re too busy holding on to our unworthiness. We’d rather be a schnook sitting before some great man. That fits in more with who we think we are. Well, enough already. We are beautiful.
(Ram Dass)
The bud
Stands for all things,
Even for those things that don’t flower,
For everything flowers, from within, of self-blessing;
Though sometimes it is necessary
To reteach a thing its loveliness,
To put a hand on the brow
Of the flower,
And retell it in words and in touch,
It is lovely
Until it flowers again from within, of self-blessing.
(Galway Kinnell)
To You
Whoever you are, I fear you are walking the walks of dreams,
I fear these supposed realities are to melt from under your feet and hands
Even now your features, joys, speech, house, trade, manners, troubles, follies, costume, crimes, dissipate away from you,
Your true soul and body appear before me,
They stand forth out of affairs, out of commerce, shops, work, farms, clothes, the house, buying, selling, eating, drinking, suffering, dying.
Whoever you are, now I place my hand upon you, that you be my poem,
I whisper with my lips close to your ear,
I have loved many women and men, but I love none better than you.
O I have been dilatory and dumb,
I should have made my way straight to you long ago,
I should have blabb'd nothing but you, I should have chanted nothing but you.
I will leave all and come and make the hymns of you,
None has understood you, but I understand you,
None has done justice to you, you have not done justice to yourself
None but has found you imperfect, I only find no imperfection in you,
None but would subordinate you, I only am he who will never consent to subordinate you,
I only am he who places over you no master, owner, better, God, beyond what waits intrinsically in yourself.
Painters have painted their swarming groups and the centre-figure of all,
From the head of the centre-figure spreading a nimbus of gold-color'd light,
But I paint myriads of heads, but paint no head without its nimbus of gold-color'd light,
From my hand from the brain of every man and woman it streams, effulgently flowing forever.
O I could sing such grandeurs and glories about you!
You have not known what you are, you have slumber'd upon yourself all your life,
Your eyelids have been the same as closed most of the time,
What you have done returns already in mockeries,
Your thrift, knowledge, prayers, if they do not return in mockeries, what is their return?)
The mockeries are not you,
Underneath them and within them I see you lurk,
I pursue you where none else has pursued you,
Silence, the desk, the flippant expression, the night, the accustom'd routine, if these conceal you from others or from yourself, they do not conceal you from me,
The shaved face, the unsteady eye, the impure complexion, if these balk others they do not balk me,
The pert apparel, the deform'd attitude, drunkenness, greed, premature death, all these I part aside
There is no endowment in man or woman that is not tallied in you,
There is no virtue, no beauty in man or woman, but as good is in you,
No pluck, no endurance in others, but as good is in you,
No pleasure waiting for others, but an equal pleasure waits for you.
As for me, I give nothing to any one except I give the like carefully to you,
I sing the songs of the glory of none, not God, sooner than I sing the songs of the glory of you.
Whoever you are! claim your own at any hazard!
These shows of the East and West are tame compared to you,
These immense meadows, these interminable rivers, you are immense and interminable as they,
These furies, elements, storms, motions of Nature, throes of apparent dissolution, you are he or she who is master or mistress over them,
Master or mistress in your own right over Nature, elements, pain, passion, dissolution.
The hopples fall from your ankles, you find an unfailing sufficiency,
Old or young, male or female, rude, low, rejected by the rest, whatever you are promulges itself,
Through birth, life, death, burial, the means are provided, nothing is scanted,
Through angers, losses, ambition, ignorance, ennui, what you are picks its way.
(Walt Whitman)
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May 10
-"The Blessing of Other Beings: Those Who've Gone Out of Their Way to Help Us"
-the practice of appreciative joy includes making a proactive effort to remember our blessings. this effort goes into reflection: purposefully recollecting certain blessings. using fabrication, to remind ourselves. this reflection leads to the emotion of gratitude. we develop in gratitude by reflecting on certain categories of blessings. these reflection leads us to the heart. the reflection on the goodness of others is essential to the practice. in reflecting on the goodness of others, we learn to reflect on the goodness of our parents and teachers. we learn to reflect on the goodness of those beings who've gone out of their way to help us, to show us kindness.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the reflection on "the blessing of other beings...
1-we cultivate appreciative joy by reflecting on our blessings....
-the skill for cultivating appreciative joy includes these steps....
1-reflection on blessings....
2-gratitude
3-appreciative joy....
2- certain categories of blessings will lead to gratitude and the heart quality of appreciation...
-we learn to reflect on these four categories of blessings....
1-our goodness....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-the effort we make to train the mind and open the heart....
2-the goodness of other beings....
3-the goodness of the dharma....
4-the preciousness of life....
-in reflecting, we are proactive....
-we recollect our blessings, using fabrication....
-we engage in repeated reflection....
-in meditation....
-in all postures....
3-in reflecting on the goodness of others we learn to reflect on the blessing of our parents ...
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that our parents gave us the gift of life....
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that they took care of us when we couldn't take care of ourselves.....
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that they went our of their way so that we could find our way into this life....
-it is essential, in following the path to the heart, that we learn to cultivate gratitude for our parents....
-for many of us, this is a process that may take some time.....
-we have to learn to, gradually, let go of afflictive emotions, such as anger and resentment, that we may have toward our parents...
-we have to be proactive in recollecting the goodness of our parents, in how they gave us the gift of life.....
4-in reflecting on the goodness of others we learn to reflect on the blessing of our teachers...
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that our teachers gave us the gift of the dharma ... they helped us to abandon suffering and know a greater happiness....
-they went out of their way, in teaching the dharma, to help us....
-they offered the gift of dharma out of compassion and love....
5-in reflecting on the goodness of others we learn to reflect on the blessing those beings who went out of their way to help and support us...
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that these beings have helped us in our efforts to develop our goodness ... to find freedom from suffering ... to know a greater happiness....
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that these beings have shown us kindness....
-in blatant ways....
-in subtle ways....
-we remember the goodness of these beings.....
-as we make a proactive effort to reflect, we recognize that many beings have been a blessing to us....
-reading.....
-"Lessons of Gratitude" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
"These two people are hard to find in the world. Which two? The one who is first to do a kindness, and the one who is grateful and thankful for a kindness done."
(AN 2.118)
"Monks, I will teach you the level of a person of no integrity and the level of a person of integrity. Listen & pay close attention. I will speak."
"As you say, lord," the monks responded.
The Blessed One said, "Now what is the level of a person of no integrity? A person of no integrity is ungrateful & unthankful. This ingratitude, this lack of thankfulness, is advocated by rude people. It is entirely on the level of people of no integrity. A person of integrity is grateful & thankful. This gratitude, this thankfulness, is advocated by civil people. It is entirely on the level of people of integrity."
"I tell you, monks, there are two people who are not easy to repay. Which two? Your mother & father. Even if you were to carry your mother on one shoulder & your father on the other shoulder for 100 years, and were to look after them by anointing, massaging, bathing, & rubbing their limbs, and they were to defecate & urinate right there [on your shoulders], you would not in that way pay or repay your parents. If you were to establish your mother & father in absolute sovereignty over this great earth, abounding in the seven treasures, you would not in that way pay or repay your parents. Why is that? Mother & father do much for their children. They care for them, they nourish them, they introduce them to this world. But anyone who rouses his unbelieving mother & father, settles & establishes them in conviction; rouses his unvirtuous mother & father, settles & establishes them in virtue; rouses his stingy mother & father, settles & establishes them in generosity; rouses his foolish mother & father, settles & establishes them in discernment: To this extent one pays & repays one's mother & father."
(AN 2.31)
A blessing: friends when the need arises.
A blessing: contentment with whatever there is.
Merit at the ending of life is a blessing.
A blessing: the abandoning of all suffering
& stress.
A blessing in the world: reverence to your mother.
A blessing: reverence to your father as well.
A blessing in the world: reverence to a contemplative.
A blessing: reverence for a brahman, too.
A blessing into old age is virtue.
A blessing: conviction established.
A blessing: discernment attained.
The non-doing of evil things is
a blessing.
(Dhp 331)
-"The Blessing of Other Beings: Those Who've Gone Out of Their Way to Help Us"
-the practice of appreciative joy includes making a proactive effort to remember our blessings. this effort goes into reflection: purposefully recollecting certain blessings. using fabrication, to remind ourselves. this reflection leads to the emotion of gratitude. we develop in gratitude by reflecting on certain categories of blessings. these reflection leads us to the heart. the reflection on the goodness of others is essential to the practice. in reflecting on the goodness of others, we learn to reflect on the goodness of our parents and teachers. we learn to reflect on the goodness of those beings who've gone out of their way to help us, to show us kindness.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the reflection on "the blessing of other beings...
1-we cultivate appreciative joy by reflecting on our blessings....
-the skill for cultivating appreciative joy includes these steps....
1-reflection on blessings....
2-gratitude
3-appreciative joy....
2- certain categories of blessings will lead to gratitude and the heart quality of appreciation...
-we learn to reflect on these four categories of blessings....
1-our goodness....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-the effort we make to train the mind and open the heart....
2-the goodness of other beings....
3-the goodness of the dharma....
4-the preciousness of life....
-in reflecting, we are proactive....
-we recollect our blessings, using fabrication....
-we engage in repeated reflection....
-in meditation....
-in all postures....
3-in reflecting on the goodness of others we learn to reflect on the blessing of our parents ...
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that our parents gave us the gift of life....
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that they took care of us when we couldn't take care of ourselves.....
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that they went our of their way so that we could find our way into this life....
-it is essential, in following the path to the heart, that we learn to cultivate gratitude for our parents....
-for many of us, this is a process that may take some time.....
-we have to learn to, gradually, let go of afflictive emotions, such as anger and resentment, that we may have toward our parents...
-we have to be proactive in recollecting the goodness of our parents, in how they gave us the gift of life.....
4-in reflecting on the goodness of others we learn to reflect on the blessing of our teachers...
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that our teachers gave us the gift of the dharma ... they helped us to abandon suffering and know a greater happiness....
-they went out of their way, in teaching the dharma, to help us....
-they offered the gift of dharma out of compassion and love....
5-in reflecting on the goodness of others we learn to reflect on the blessing those beings who went out of their way to help and support us...
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that these beings have helped us in our efforts to develop our goodness ... to find freedom from suffering ... to know a greater happiness....
-we reflect, reminding ourselves that these beings have shown us kindness....
-in blatant ways....
-in subtle ways....
-we remember the goodness of these beings.....
-as we make a proactive effort to reflect, we recognize that many beings have been a blessing to us....
-reading.....
-"Lessons of Gratitude" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
"These two people are hard to find in the world. Which two? The one who is first to do a kindness, and the one who is grateful and thankful for a kindness done."
(AN 2.118)
"Monks, I will teach you the level of a person of no integrity and the level of a person of integrity. Listen & pay close attention. I will speak."
"As you say, lord," the monks responded.
The Blessed One said, "Now what is the level of a person of no integrity? A person of no integrity is ungrateful & unthankful. This ingratitude, this lack of thankfulness, is advocated by rude people. It is entirely on the level of people of no integrity. A person of integrity is grateful & thankful. This gratitude, this thankfulness, is advocated by civil people. It is entirely on the level of people of integrity."
"I tell you, monks, there are two people who are not easy to repay. Which two? Your mother & father. Even if you were to carry your mother on one shoulder & your father on the other shoulder for 100 years, and were to look after them by anointing, massaging, bathing, & rubbing their limbs, and they were to defecate & urinate right there [on your shoulders], you would not in that way pay or repay your parents. If you were to establish your mother & father in absolute sovereignty over this great earth, abounding in the seven treasures, you would not in that way pay or repay your parents. Why is that? Mother & father do much for their children. They care for them, they nourish them, they introduce them to this world. But anyone who rouses his unbelieving mother & father, settles & establishes them in conviction; rouses his unvirtuous mother & father, settles & establishes them in virtue; rouses his stingy mother & father, settles & establishes them in generosity; rouses his foolish mother & father, settles & establishes them in discernment: To this extent one pays & repays one's mother & father."
(AN 2.31)
A blessing: friends when the need arises.
A blessing: contentment with whatever there is.
Merit at the ending of life is a blessing.
A blessing: the abandoning of all suffering
& stress.
A blessing in the world: reverence to your mother.
A blessing: reverence to your father as well.
A blessing in the world: reverence to a contemplative.
A blessing: reverence for a brahman, too.
A blessing into old age is virtue.
A blessing: conviction established.
A blessing: discernment attained.
The non-doing of evil things is
a blessing.
(Dhp 331)
May 3
-"The Practice of Appreciative Joy"
-the dharma, the path that leads to the awakened heart, includes, as an element component, the development of appreciative joy. this quality of appreciation, joy, is a sublime abiding. it is found in the heart. but it must be cultivated. we cultivate joy by reflecting on the goodness in ourselves and the world. this reflection leads to gratitude. and gratitude leads to appreciative joy. in order for us to remain in the present moment, there needs to be joy. in order for us to meet the difficulties in life, there needs to be joy. in order to come closer to the heart, there needs to be joy.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop "the practice of appreciative joy"...
1-appreciative joy is an elemental component of the journey to awakening....
-in his teaching the Buddha describes the journey to awakening as having these steps....
-conviction....
-skillful action....
-joy....
-concentration/jhana....
-wisdom.....
-release....
-in order to make the journey, we need to cultivate joy....
2- we cultivate joy by reflecting on our goodness and the goodness around us...
-the skill for cultivating appreciative joy includes these basic steps....
1-reflection on goodness....
-we reflect on our blessings....
-the blessing of....
-our goodness....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-the effort we make to train the mind and open the heart....
-the goodness of other beings....
-the goodness of the dharma....
-the preciousness of life....
2-gratitude
-the reflection on blessings gives rise to the emotion of gratitude.....
3-appreciative joy....
-gratitude gives rise to the sublime abiding of appreciative joy.....
3-it is necessary to cultivate joy, in order to meet the experience of life and to flourish in this life ...
-reasons why we seek to cultivate joy include....
-we cultivate joy....
-so that we are able to establish and maintain ourselves in the present moment....
-so that we are able to meet the difficulties in life....
-so that we are able to come closer to the heart.....
4-joy is in the heart, but we must cultivate it.....
-joy is a sublime abiding....
-it is deathless, timeless....
-it is everpresent.....
-but it must be cultivated....
-our task, as dharma students, is to make an ongoing effort to cultivate appreciative joy....
-everyday.....
-in meditation....
-in all postures....
-reading.....
-"Preparing the Mind for Meditation" (from Skillful Pleasure)
-"The Practice of Appreciative Joy"
-the dharma, the path that leads to the awakened heart, includes, as an element component, the development of appreciative joy. this quality of appreciation, joy, is a sublime abiding. it is found in the heart. but it must be cultivated. we cultivate joy by reflecting on the goodness in ourselves and the world. this reflection leads to gratitude. and gratitude leads to appreciative joy. in order for us to remain in the present moment, there needs to be joy. in order for us to meet the difficulties in life, there needs to be joy. in order to come closer to the heart, there needs to be joy.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop "the practice of appreciative joy"...
1-appreciative joy is an elemental component of the journey to awakening....
-in his teaching the Buddha describes the journey to awakening as having these steps....
-conviction....
-skillful action....
-joy....
-concentration/jhana....
-wisdom.....
-release....
-in order to make the journey, we need to cultivate joy....
2- we cultivate joy by reflecting on our goodness and the goodness around us...
-the skill for cultivating appreciative joy includes these basic steps....
1-reflection on goodness....
-we reflect on our blessings....
-the blessing of....
-our goodness....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-the effort we make to train the mind and open the heart....
-the goodness of other beings....
-the goodness of the dharma....
-the preciousness of life....
2-gratitude
-the reflection on blessings gives rise to the emotion of gratitude.....
3-appreciative joy....
-gratitude gives rise to the sublime abiding of appreciative joy.....
3-it is necessary to cultivate joy, in order to meet the experience of life and to flourish in this life ...
-reasons why we seek to cultivate joy include....
-we cultivate joy....
-so that we are able to establish and maintain ourselves in the present moment....
-so that we are able to meet the difficulties in life....
-so that we are able to come closer to the heart.....
4-joy is in the heart, but we must cultivate it.....
-joy is a sublime abiding....
-it is deathless, timeless....
-it is everpresent.....
-but it must be cultivated....
-our task, as dharma students, is to make an ongoing effort to cultivate appreciative joy....
-everyday.....
-in meditation....
-in all postures....
-reading.....
-"Preparing the Mind for Meditation" (from Skillful Pleasure)
| breath_meditation_preparing_the_mind.pdf |
"Furthermore, there is the case where you recollect the Dhamma: 'The Dhamma is well-expounded by the Blessed One, to be seen here & now, timeless, inviting verification, pertinent, to be realized by the wise for themselves.' At any time when a disciple of the noble ones is recollecting the Dhamma, his mind is not overcome with passion, not overcome with aversion, not overcome with delusion. His mind heads straight, based on the Dhamma. And when the mind is headed straight, the disciple of the noble ones gains a sense of the goal, gains a sense of the Dhamma, gains joy connected with the Dhamma. In one who is joyful, rapture arises. In one who is rapturous, the body grows calm. One whose body is calmed experiences ease. In one at ease, the mind becomes concentrated."
(AN 11.12)
"conviction has stress & suffering as its prerequisite, joy has conviction as its prerequisite, rapture has joy as its prerequisite, serenity has rapture as its prerequisite, pleasure has serenity as its prerequisite, concentration has pleasure as its prerequisite, knowledge & vision of things as they actually are present has concentration as its prerequisite, disenchantment has knowledge & vision of things as they actually are present as its prerequisite, dispassion has disenchantment as its prerequisite, release has dispassion as its prerequisite, knowledge of ending has release as its prerequisite."
(SN 12.23)
April 26
-"Inner Strength"
-in meditation, the dharma student meets difficulties, ups & downs, with composure, ease, strength. and in the course of her days & nights, she meets the experiences of life, including the difficulties, with the same qualities. she has inner strength. through our training, as dharma students, we develop in inner strength. this inner strength, the capacity to remain strong in all circumstances, enables us to meet the challenges of life and to flourish in this life. through breath meditation, we develop inner strength. the ability to keep the mind on the breath, in good home, is central to the quality of having inner strength.
-some things to to remember as we learn to have "inner strength"...
1-the dharma student meets the difficulties in meditation with inner strength.....
-in meditation, we meet obstacles, difficulties....
-thinking....
-hindrances....
-the difficulties the body presents....
-the difficulties that the senses present....
-in the face of these difficulties, we have equanimity.....
-we remain even-tempered....
-steady....
-in balance....
-in meeting difficulty, we learn to stay with the breath....
-we keep the mind there....
-the breath is a home for the mind....
2- in all our postures, in our days & nights, we meet life with inner strength....
-as the Buddha tells us, there are basic challenges, difficulties in life....
-illlness....
-aging....
-death....
-separation....
-as human beings we are subject to the vicissitudes of life....
-pleasure & pain....
-gain & loss....
-status & disrepute....
-praise & blame....
-as human beings we will have disagreeable experience....
-in the world....
-in relationship to others....
-in our personal experience.....
-body....
-mind.....
-the dharma students, we meet difficult experience with equanimity....
-inner strength....
3-as dharma students we meet adversity with inner strength ...
-the ability to meet adversity with inner strength is an important mark of an admirable being....
-to reflect:
-how do we meet adversity....?
-do we remain strong....?
-how can we learn to meet adversity with strength...?
4-the dharma student, developed in inner strength, keeps the mind on the breath....
-when there is diffculty ... most beings engage in lots of thinking....
-they become lost in thought worlds....
-they become fixated on thoughts, narratives...
-developed in inner strength, the dharma students....
-sees the thinking....
-with space....
-brings insight to it, asking questions such as, is it useful...?
-puts the mind on the breath....
-keeps the mind there....
-doesn't allow the mind to follow after the thinking....
-remains strong....
-even-tempered....
-at ease....
-we might, therefore, begin to ask: are there things, conventions, that we're holding on to ... that are not serving us....?
-why are we holding on....?
5-the benefits of having inner strength, being able to keep the mind on the breath, are profound.....
-developed in inner strength, the dharma student....
-keeps the mind on the breath ... in the body....
-when we're able to keep the mind on the breath ... in the body....
-there is less thinking....
-therefore, less suffering.....
-the mind regains its strength (when it is caught in thought, it weakens)....
-there is calmness....
-we function more effectively....
-we can meet the challenges of life....
-we can express our goodness....
-we have space ... we are able to have a wider view of things....
-we see the goodness in life....
-we are able to use our wisdom....
-our awareness....
-we are closer to the heart....
-our innate wisdom....
-compassion....
-love....
-joy.....
-reading.....
-"Strength for the Journey" (Ajaan Lee)
"There are these five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained. Which five?
"'I am subject to aging, have not gone beyond aging.' This is the first fact that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained.
"'I am subject to illness, have not gone beyond illness.' ...
"'I am subject to death, have not gone beyond death.' ...
"'I will grow different, separate from all that is dear and appealing to me.' ...
"'I am the owner of my actions, heir to my actions, born of my actions, related through my actions, and have my actions as my arbitrator. Whatever I do, for good or for evil, to that will I fall heir.' ...
"These are the five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained."
(AN 5.57)
"Monks, these eight worldly conditions spin after the world, and the world spins after these eight worldly conditions. Which eight? Gain, loss, status, disgrace, censure, praise, pleasure, & pain. These are the eight worldly conditions that spin after the world, and the world spins after these eight worldly conditions.
"For an uninstructed run-of-the-mill person there arise gain, loss, status, disgrace, censure, praise, pleasure, & pain. For a well-instructed disciple of the noble ones there also arise gain, loss, status, disgrace, censure, praise, pleasure, & pain. So what difference, what distinction, what distinguishing factor is there between the well-instructed disciple of the noble ones and the uninstructed run-of-the-mill person?"
"For us, lord, the teachings have the Blessed One as their root, their guide, & their arbitrator. It would be good if the Blessed One himself would explicate the meaning of this statement. Having heard it from the Blessed One, the monks will remember it."
"In that case, monks, listen & pay close attention. I will speak."
"As you say, lord," the monks responded.
The Blessed One said, "Gain arises for an uninstructed run-of-the-mill person. He does not reflect, 'Gain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He does not discern it as it actually is.
"Loss arises... Status arises... Disgrace arises... Censure arises... Praise arises... Pleasure arises...
"Pain arises. He does not reflect, 'Pain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He does not discern it as it actually is.
"His mind remains consumed with the gain. His mind remains consumed with the loss... with the status... the disgrace... the censure... the praise... the pleasure. His mind remains consumed with the pain.
"He welcomes the arisen gain and rebels against the arisen loss. He welcomes the arisen status and rebels against the arisen disgrace. He welcomes the arisen praise and rebels against the arisen censure. He welcomes the arisen pleasure and rebels against the arisen pain. As he is thus engaged in welcoming & rebelling, he is not released from birth, aging, or death; from sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, or despairs. He is not released, I tell you, from suffering & stress.
"Now, gain arises for a well-instructed disciple of the noble ones. He reflects, 'Gain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He discerns it as it actually is.
"Loss arises... Status arises... Disgrace arises... Censure arises... Praise arises... Pleasure arises...
"Pain arises. He reflects, 'Pain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He discerns it as it actually is.
"His mind does not remain consumed with the gain. His mind does not remain consumed with the loss... with the status... the disgrace... the censure... the praise... the pleasure. His mind does not remain consumed with the pain.
"He does not welcome the arisen gain, or rebel against the arisen loss. He does not welcome the arisen status, or rebel against the arisen disgrace. He does not welcome the arisen praise, or rebel against the arisen censure. He does not welcome the arisen pleasure, or rebel against the arisen pain. As he thus abandons welcoming & rebelling, he is released from birth, aging, & death; from sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, & despairs. He is released, I tell you, from suffering & stress.
"This is the difference, this the distinction, this the distinguishing factor between the well-instructed disciple of the noble ones and the uninstructed run-of-the-mill person."
(AN 8.6)
Rāhula, develop meditation in tune with earth — for when you are developing meditation in tune with earth, agreeable & disagreeable sensory impressions that have arisen will not stay in charge of your mind. Just as when people throw what is clean or unclean on the earth — feces, urine, saliva, pus, or blood — the earth is not horrified, humiliated, or disgusted by it; in the same way, when you are developing meditation in tune with earth, agreeable & disagreeable sensory impressions that have arisen will not stay in charge of your mind."
(MN 62)
-"Inner Strength"
-in meditation, the dharma student meets difficulties, ups & downs, with composure, ease, strength. and in the course of her days & nights, she meets the experiences of life, including the difficulties, with the same qualities. she has inner strength. through our training, as dharma students, we develop in inner strength. this inner strength, the capacity to remain strong in all circumstances, enables us to meet the challenges of life and to flourish in this life. through breath meditation, we develop inner strength. the ability to keep the mind on the breath, in good home, is central to the quality of having inner strength.
-some things to to remember as we learn to have "inner strength"...
1-the dharma student meets the difficulties in meditation with inner strength.....
-in meditation, we meet obstacles, difficulties....
-thinking....
-hindrances....
-the difficulties the body presents....
-the difficulties that the senses present....
-in the face of these difficulties, we have equanimity.....
-we remain even-tempered....
-steady....
-in balance....
-in meeting difficulty, we learn to stay with the breath....
-we keep the mind there....
-the breath is a home for the mind....
2- in all our postures, in our days & nights, we meet life with inner strength....
-as the Buddha tells us, there are basic challenges, difficulties in life....
-illlness....
-aging....
-death....
-separation....
-as human beings we are subject to the vicissitudes of life....
-pleasure & pain....
-gain & loss....
-status & disrepute....
-praise & blame....
-as human beings we will have disagreeable experience....
-in the world....
-in relationship to others....
-in our personal experience.....
-body....
-mind.....
-the dharma students, we meet difficult experience with equanimity....
-inner strength....
3-as dharma students we meet adversity with inner strength ...
-the ability to meet adversity with inner strength is an important mark of an admirable being....
-to reflect:
-how do we meet adversity....?
-do we remain strong....?
-how can we learn to meet adversity with strength...?
4-the dharma student, developed in inner strength, keeps the mind on the breath....
-when there is diffculty ... most beings engage in lots of thinking....
-they become lost in thought worlds....
-they become fixated on thoughts, narratives...
-developed in inner strength, the dharma students....
-sees the thinking....
-with space....
-brings insight to it, asking questions such as, is it useful...?
-puts the mind on the breath....
-keeps the mind there....
-doesn't allow the mind to follow after the thinking....
-remains strong....
-even-tempered....
-at ease....
-we might, therefore, begin to ask: are there things, conventions, that we're holding on to ... that are not serving us....?
-why are we holding on....?
5-the benefits of having inner strength, being able to keep the mind on the breath, are profound.....
-developed in inner strength, the dharma student....
-keeps the mind on the breath ... in the body....
-when we're able to keep the mind on the breath ... in the body....
-there is less thinking....
-therefore, less suffering.....
-the mind regains its strength (when it is caught in thought, it weakens)....
-there is calmness....
-we function more effectively....
-we can meet the challenges of life....
-we can express our goodness....
-we have space ... we are able to have a wider view of things....
-we see the goodness in life....
-we are able to use our wisdom....
-our awareness....
-we are closer to the heart....
-our innate wisdom....
-compassion....
-love....
-joy.....
-reading.....
-"Strength for the Journey" (Ajaan Lee)
"There are these five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained. Which five?
"'I am subject to aging, have not gone beyond aging.' This is the first fact that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained.
"'I am subject to illness, have not gone beyond illness.' ...
"'I am subject to death, have not gone beyond death.' ...
"'I will grow different, separate from all that is dear and appealing to me.' ...
"'I am the owner of my actions, heir to my actions, born of my actions, related through my actions, and have my actions as my arbitrator. Whatever I do, for good or for evil, to that will I fall heir.' ...
"These are the five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained."
(AN 5.57)
"Monks, these eight worldly conditions spin after the world, and the world spins after these eight worldly conditions. Which eight? Gain, loss, status, disgrace, censure, praise, pleasure, & pain. These are the eight worldly conditions that spin after the world, and the world spins after these eight worldly conditions.
"For an uninstructed run-of-the-mill person there arise gain, loss, status, disgrace, censure, praise, pleasure, & pain. For a well-instructed disciple of the noble ones there also arise gain, loss, status, disgrace, censure, praise, pleasure, & pain. So what difference, what distinction, what distinguishing factor is there between the well-instructed disciple of the noble ones and the uninstructed run-of-the-mill person?"
"For us, lord, the teachings have the Blessed One as their root, their guide, & their arbitrator. It would be good if the Blessed One himself would explicate the meaning of this statement. Having heard it from the Blessed One, the monks will remember it."
"In that case, monks, listen & pay close attention. I will speak."
"As you say, lord," the monks responded.
The Blessed One said, "Gain arises for an uninstructed run-of-the-mill person. He does not reflect, 'Gain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He does not discern it as it actually is.
"Loss arises... Status arises... Disgrace arises... Censure arises... Praise arises... Pleasure arises...
"Pain arises. He does not reflect, 'Pain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He does not discern it as it actually is.
"His mind remains consumed with the gain. His mind remains consumed with the loss... with the status... the disgrace... the censure... the praise... the pleasure. His mind remains consumed with the pain.
"He welcomes the arisen gain and rebels against the arisen loss. He welcomes the arisen status and rebels against the arisen disgrace. He welcomes the arisen praise and rebels against the arisen censure. He welcomes the arisen pleasure and rebels against the arisen pain. As he is thus engaged in welcoming & rebelling, he is not released from birth, aging, or death; from sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, or despairs. He is not released, I tell you, from suffering & stress.
"Now, gain arises for a well-instructed disciple of the noble ones. He reflects, 'Gain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He discerns it as it actually is.
"Loss arises... Status arises... Disgrace arises... Censure arises... Praise arises... Pleasure arises...
"Pain arises. He reflects, 'Pain has arisen for me. It is inconstant, stressful, & subject to change.' He discerns it as it actually is.
"His mind does not remain consumed with the gain. His mind does not remain consumed with the loss... with the status... the disgrace... the censure... the praise... the pleasure. His mind does not remain consumed with the pain.
"He does not welcome the arisen gain, or rebel against the arisen loss. He does not welcome the arisen status, or rebel against the arisen disgrace. He does not welcome the arisen praise, or rebel against the arisen censure. He does not welcome the arisen pleasure, or rebel against the arisen pain. As he thus abandons welcoming & rebelling, he is released from birth, aging, & death; from sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, & despairs. He is released, I tell you, from suffering & stress.
"This is the difference, this the distinction, this the distinguishing factor between the well-instructed disciple of the noble ones and the uninstructed run-of-the-mill person."
(AN 8.6)
Rāhula, develop meditation in tune with earth — for when you are developing meditation in tune with earth, agreeable & disagreeable sensory impressions that have arisen will not stay in charge of your mind. Just as when people throw what is clean or unclean on the earth — feces, urine, saliva, pus, or blood — the earth is not horrified, humiliated, or disgusted by it; in the same way, when you are developing meditation in tune with earth, agreeable & disagreeable sensory impressions that have arisen will not stay in charge of your mind."
(MN 62)
April 19
-"The Non-Conformist"
-the dharma student, the person following the Buddha's path, is, by definition, a non-conformist. she goes against the current. most beings, as the Buddha explains, go along with the current, with the flow of the culture. they do what everybody else is doing. the dharma student, on the other hand, looks to see what is in her best interests and she does that. which is to say, what is in the best interests of the heart. as the Buddha tells us, it's easier to go along with the current. the path of the dharma is difficult. we're asked to leave things behind. others don't understand what we're doing. it's one important reason why it's important to have a community of likeminded beings to practice with, beings who support us, understand us. as dharma students, we learn to adopt an attitude of non-conformism. we take joy in following a countercultural path, in doing what has to be done, in the service of knowing a greater happiness.
-some things to to remember as we learn to follow the way of "the non-conformist"...
1-the dharma student is a non-conformist.....
-the person following the Buddha's path goes against the current....
-doesn't simply do what everyone else is doing because they're doing it....
-in being on this path, we learn to accept that we're taking a countercultural path....
-others may not understand what we're doing
-we may find it difficult to explain to others what we're doing....
-in making the path, therefore, it's essential that we have kalyana mitta ... admirable friends....
-a community of others who are on the same journey.....
-as the Buddha tells us, it is difficult at times to go against the current....
-at first, we practice 'with tears in our eyes'.....
-gradually, though, we come to a greater happiness....
-we know the happiness of the heart.....
2- most beings will choose to go along with the current....
-as the Buddha notes, it's easier to go along with the current....
-to do what others are doing....
-we see the tendency to go along with the current in the way that most beings relate to sense pleasures like the smartphone....
-indulging in these sense pleasures ... following the way of the culture....
-the dharma student, seeking a greater happiness than the happiness that most beings seek, learns to question her actions....
-she asks, in considering her relationship to sense pleasures, is this action going to lead to the heart ... or away from the heart....
-the dharma students makes decisions about what to do based on what's in the best interests of the heart....
-not based on what others are doing....
3-as dharma students we develop the attitude of a non-conformist ...
-we learn to accept that what we're doing, the path we're taking, is different.....
-others may not understand....
-we learn to take joy in our countercultural journey....
-we recognize that we're fortunate to be on this journey....
-we have gratitude....
-we take joy in doing what has to be done, to know a greater happiness....
-even though it's difficult....
-we take joy in our goodness ... our strength ... in going against the current.....
4-the dharma student gradually abandons certain social conventions....
-the attachment to social conventions is gradually abandoned....
-in the service of knowing a greater happiness...
-as we practice the dharma....
-as we learn to be heedful ... as we learn to ask, is what i'm doing leading to the heart or away from the heart....
-as we learn to live in tune with the heart....
-we gradually abandon our attachment to social conventions ... conformities...
-we become disenchanted....
-we might, therefore, begin to ask: are there things, conventions, that we're holding on to ... that are not serving us....?
-why are we holding on....?
5-in following the path of a non-conformist we have to be mindful of doubt.....
-as we go against the stream...
-one of the dangers is doubt....
-as dharma students, we learn to be mindful of doubt....
-we see doubt for what it is....
-we abandon doubt....
-we continue to move forward, with love....
-reading.....
-"Affirming the Truths of the Heart" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
I learned this, at least, by my experiment; that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; new, universal, and more liberal laws will begin to establish themselves around and within him; or the old laws be expanded, and interpreted in his favor in a more liberal sense, and he will live with the license of a higher order of beings. In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness. If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundation under them. . . .
(Thoreau/Walden)
Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation) there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too.
All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issue from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way.
Whatever you can do or dream you can begin it. Boldness has genius, magic and power in it.
Begin it now.
(Goethe)
The Journey (Mary Oliver)
One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice --
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
"Mend my life!"
each voice cried.
But you didn't stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voice behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do --
determined to save
the only life that you could save.
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-"The Non-Conformist"
-the dharma student, the person following the Buddha's path, is, by definition, a non-conformist. she goes against the current. most beings, as the Buddha explains, go along with the current, with the flow of the culture. they do what everybody else is doing. the dharma student, on the other hand, looks to see what is in her best interests and she does that. which is to say, what is in the best interests of the heart. as the Buddha tells us, it's easier to go along with the current. the path of the dharma is difficult. we're asked to leave things behind. others don't understand what we're doing. it's one important reason why it's important to have a community of likeminded beings to practice with, beings who support us, understand us. as dharma students, we learn to adopt an attitude of non-conformism. we take joy in following a countercultural path, in doing what has to be done, in the service of knowing a greater happiness.
-some things to to remember as we learn to follow the way of "the non-conformist"...
1-the dharma student is a non-conformist.....
-the person following the Buddha's path goes against the current....
-doesn't simply do what everyone else is doing because they're doing it....
-in being on this path, we learn to accept that we're taking a countercultural path....
-others may not understand what we're doing
-we may find it difficult to explain to others what we're doing....
-in making the path, therefore, it's essential that we have kalyana mitta ... admirable friends....
-a community of others who are on the same journey.....
-as the Buddha tells us, it is difficult at times to go against the current....
-at first, we practice 'with tears in our eyes'.....
-gradually, though, we come to a greater happiness....
-we know the happiness of the heart.....
2- most beings will choose to go along with the current....
-as the Buddha notes, it's easier to go along with the current....
-to do what others are doing....
-we see the tendency to go along with the current in the way that most beings relate to sense pleasures like the smartphone....
-indulging in these sense pleasures ... following the way of the culture....
-the dharma student, seeking a greater happiness than the happiness that most beings seek, learns to question her actions....
-she asks, in considering her relationship to sense pleasures, is this action going to lead to the heart ... or away from the heart....
-the dharma students makes decisions about what to do based on what's in the best interests of the heart....
-not based on what others are doing....
3-as dharma students we develop the attitude of a non-conformist ...
-we learn to accept that what we're doing, the path we're taking, is different.....
-others may not understand....
-we learn to take joy in our countercultural journey....
-we recognize that we're fortunate to be on this journey....
-we have gratitude....
-we take joy in doing what has to be done, to know a greater happiness....
-even though it's difficult....
-we take joy in our goodness ... our strength ... in going against the current.....
4-the dharma student gradually abandons certain social conventions....
-the attachment to social conventions is gradually abandoned....
-in the service of knowing a greater happiness...
-as we practice the dharma....
-as we learn to be heedful ... as we learn to ask, is what i'm doing leading to the heart or away from the heart....
-as we learn to live in tune with the heart....
-we gradually abandon our attachment to social conventions ... conformities...
-we become disenchanted....
-we might, therefore, begin to ask: are there things, conventions, that we're holding on to ... that are not serving us....?
-why are we holding on....?
5-in following the path of a non-conformist we have to be mindful of doubt.....
-as we go against the stream...
-one of the dangers is doubt....
-as dharma students, we learn to be mindful of doubt....
-we see doubt for what it is....
-we abandon doubt....
-we continue to move forward, with love....
-reading.....
-"Affirming the Truths of the Heart" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
I learned this, at least, by my experiment; that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; new, universal, and more liberal laws will begin to establish themselves around and within him; or the old laws be expanded, and interpreted in his favor in a more liberal sense, and he will live with the license of a higher order of beings. In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness. If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundation under them. . . .
(Thoreau/Walden)
Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation) there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too.
All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issue from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way.
Whatever you can do or dream you can begin it. Boldness has genius, magic and power in it.
Begin it now.
(Goethe)
The Journey (Mary Oliver)
One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice --
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
"Mend my life!"
each voice cried.
But you didn't stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voice behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do --
determined to save
the only life that you could save.
Teacher Support
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Donations can also be made via PayPal by using the address: [email protected]
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Thank you for your generosity!
April 12
-"The Language of the Heart"
-it's sometimes said that in dharma practice we're 'learning to be alone.' in order to accomplish this difficult task, we need the support of others. we need admirable friends. as the Buddha tells us, the most important 'external' factor in making the path is the association with admirable beings. we seek to associate with beings of integrity. and, in turn, we strive to be a person of integrity. in his teachings the Buddha describes what it means to be a person of integrity. one of the key elements is how we relate to adversity. as dharma students, persons of integrity, we strive to meet adversity with equanimity, wisdom, compassion & love. as a dharma student, as a person of integrity, we learn to speak skillfully. and, importantly, we learn to listen. the skill of listening is integral to what it means to be a dharma student and essential to develop as we move along the path. in reflection, we should ask, do we listen?
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop "the language of the heart"...
1-having admirable friends is essential to the path that leads to true happiness.....
-the Buddha tells us that having admirable friendship is the most important 'external' factor in making the path....
-admirable friends include....
-teachers....
-our fellow dharma students....
-other beings in our lives who embody qualities of integrity....
-an admirable friend is a person of integrity....
-a person who is committed to the development of....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-concentration....
-wisdom....
-in making the path, we seek to have admirable friends....
-and, very important to remember, we seek to be an admirable friend....
2- there are certain conditions that enable us to identify admirable beings and ascertain if we are admirable beings....
-the Buddha speaks about four ways in which we learn to know if a being is admirable and if we are admirable....
1-we are around someone for a long time....
2-we have 'dealings' with the person....
3-we see how the person meets adversity....
4-we have discussions with the person....
3-we know if a person of integrity, and, in turn, if we are a person of integrity by how the person meets adversity ...
-a person of integrity meets the difficulties of life, the difficulties of practice, with....
-equanimity....
-acceptance.....
-composure.....
-balance....
-wisdom....
-compassion....
-love....
-we should ask, how do we meet adversity....?
-do we embody these qualities....?
4-the dharma student is someone who's resolved to develop the ability to listen....
-as dharma students, we seek to speak skillfully ... and listen skillfully.....
-it is extremely important, as we make the past, to learn to listen....
-to listen to the other....
-we should ask and look to see:
-do we listen...?
-do we pay attention to the other....?
-or, are we thinking about other things....
-or distracted by sense experiences....
-or, are we thining about what the other is saying....?
-are we commenting on what the other is saying....?
-or are we thinking about what we want to say....?
-caught in desire to speak....
-as a person of integrity, we learn to listen....
-with acceptance....
-with calmness...
-with compassion ... love....
-with the heart....
-we develop in our capacity to listen by....
-staying with the breath....
-staying in the body....
-staying close to the heart....
-we learn to listen....
-this quality is essential for the dharma student seeking to find a greater happiness in her life....
-we listen....
-to the other....
-to the silence....
-to the heart....
-reading.....
-"Thana Sutta: Traits" (AN 4.192)
"But, Ananda, haven't I already taught you the state of growing different with regard to all things dear & appealing, the state of becoming separate, the state of becoming otherwise? What else is there to expect? It's impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
"Just as if the largest limb were to fall off of a great tree composed of heartwood, standing firm; in the same way, Sariputta has attained total Unbinding from this great community of monks composed of heartwood, standing firm. What else is there to expect? It's impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
"Therefore, Ananda, each of you should remain with your self as an island, your self as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. Remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. And how does a monk remain with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? How does he remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? There is the case where a monk remains focused on the body in & of itself — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world. He remains focused on feelings... mind... mental qualities in & of themselves — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world. This is how a monk remains with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge. For those who — now or after I am gone — remain with their self as an island, their self as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, they will be the highest of the monks who desire training."
(SN 47.13)
"With regard to external factors, I don't envision any other single factor like friendship with admirable people as doing so much for a monk in training, who has not attained the goal but remains intent on the unsurpassed safety from bondage. A monk who is a friend with admirable people abandons what is unskillful and develops what is skillful."
A monk who is a friend
to admirable people
— who's reverential, respectful,
doing what his friends advise --
mindful, alert,
attains step by step
the ending of all fetters.
(Iti 17)
As he was seated to one side, Ven. Ananda said to the Blessed One, "This is half of the holy life, lord: having admirable people as friends, companions, & colleagues."
"Don't say that, Ananda. Don't say that. Having admirable people as friends, companions, & colleagues is actually the whole of the holy life. When a monk has admirable people as friends, companions, & colleagues, he can be expected to develop & pursue the noble eightfold path.”
(SN 45.2)
"And what is meant by admirable friendship? There is the case where a lay person, in whatever town or village he may dwell, spends time with householders or householders' sons, young or old, who are advanced in virtue. He talks with them, engages them in discussions. He emulates consummate conviction in those who are consummate in conviction, consummate virtue in those who are consummate in virtue, consummate generosity in those who are consummate in generosity, and consummate discernment in those who are consummate in discernment. This is called admirable friendship.”
(AN 8.54)
"It's through living together that a person's virtue may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
"It's through dealing with a person that his purity may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
"It's through adversity that a person's endurance may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
"It's through discussion that a person's discernment may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
(AN 4.12)
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No Matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”
(S. Beckett)
-"We Are Not One" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
A Ritual to Read to Each Other (William Stafford)
If you don't know the kind of person I am
and I don't know the kind of person you are
a pattern that others made may prevail in the world
and following the wrong god home we may miss our star.
For there is many a small betrayal in the mind,
a shrug that lets the fragile sequence break
sending with shouts the horrible errors of childhood
storming out to play through the broken dike.
And as elephants parade holding each elephant's tail,
but if one wanders the circus won't find the park,
I call it cruel and maybe the root of all cruelty
to know what occurs but not recognize the fact.
And so I appeal to a voice, to something shadowy,
a remote important region in all who talk:
though we could fool each other, we should consider--
lest the parade of our mutual life get lost in the dark.
For it is important that awake people be awake,
or a breaking line may discourage them back to sleep;
the signals we give — yes or no, or maybe --
should be clear: the darkness around us is deep.
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-"The Language of the Heart"
-it's sometimes said that in dharma practice we're 'learning to be alone.' in order to accomplish this difficult task, we need the support of others. we need admirable friends. as the Buddha tells us, the most important 'external' factor in making the path is the association with admirable beings. we seek to associate with beings of integrity. and, in turn, we strive to be a person of integrity. in his teachings the Buddha describes what it means to be a person of integrity. one of the key elements is how we relate to adversity. as dharma students, persons of integrity, we strive to meet adversity with equanimity, wisdom, compassion & love. as a dharma student, as a person of integrity, we learn to speak skillfully. and, importantly, we learn to listen. the skill of listening is integral to what it means to be a dharma student and essential to develop as we move along the path. in reflection, we should ask, do we listen?
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop "the language of the heart"...
1-having admirable friends is essential to the path that leads to true happiness.....
-the Buddha tells us that having admirable friendship is the most important 'external' factor in making the path....
-admirable friends include....
-teachers....
-our fellow dharma students....
-other beings in our lives who embody qualities of integrity....
-an admirable friend is a person of integrity....
-a person who is committed to the development of....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-concentration....
-wisdom....
-in making the path, we seek to have admirable friends....
-and, very important to remember, we seek to be an admirable friend....
2- there are certain conditions that enable us to identify admirable beings and ascertain if we are admirable beings....
-the Buddha speaks about four ways in which we learn to know if a being is admirable and if we are admirable....
1-we are around someone for a long time....
2-we have 'dealings' with the person....
3-we see how the person meets adversity....
4-we have discussions with the person....
3-we know if a person of integrity, and, in turn, if we are a person of integrity by how the person meets adversity ...
-a person of integrity meets the difficulties of life, the difficulties of practice, with....
-equanimity....
-acceptance.....
-composure.....
-balance....
-wisdom....
-compassion....
-love....
-we should ask, how do we meet adversity....?
-do we embody these qualities....?
4-the dharma student is someone who's resolved to develop the ability to listen....
-as dharma students, we seek to speak skillfully ... and listen skillfully.....
-it is extremely important, as we make the past, to learn to listen....
-to listen to the other....
-we should ask and look to see:
-do we listen...?
-do we pay attention to the other....?
-or, are we thinking about other things....
-or distracted by sense experiences....
-or, are we thining about what the other is saying....?
-are we commenting on what the other is saying....?
-or are we thinking about what we want to say....?
-caught in desire to speak....
-as a person of integrity, we learn to listen....
-with acceptance....
-with calmness...
-with compassion ... love....
-with the heart....
-we develop in our capacity to listen by....
-staying with the breath....
-staying in the body....
-staying close to the heart....
-we learn to listen....
-this quality is essential for the dharma student seeking to find a greater happiness in her life....
-we listen....
-to the other....
-to the silence....
-to the heart....
-reading.....
-"Thana Sutta: Traits" (AN 4.192)
"But, Ananda, haven't I already taught you the state of growing different with regard to all things dear & appealing, the state of becoming separate, the state of becoming otherwise? What else is there to expect? It's impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
"Just as if the largest limb were to fall off of a great tree composed of heartwood, standing firm; in the same way, Sariputta has attained total Unbinding from this great community of monks composed of heartwood, standing firm. What else is there to expect? It's impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
"Therefore, Ananda, each of you should remain with your self as an island, your self as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. Remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. And how does a monk remain with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? How does he remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? There is the case where a monk remains focused on the body in & of itself — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world. He remains focused on feelings... mind... mental qualities in & of themselves — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world. This is how a monk remains with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge. For those who — now or after I am gone — remain with their self as an island, their self as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, they will be the highest of the monks who desire training."
(SN 47.13)
"With regard to external factors, I don't envision any other single factor like friendship with admirable people as doing so much for a monk in training, who has not attained the goal but remains intent on the unsurpassed safety from bondage. A monk who is a friend with admirable people abandons what is unskillful and develops what is skillful."
A monk who is a friend
to admirable people
— who's reverential, respectful,
doing what his friends advise --
mindful, alert,
attains step by step
the ending of all fetters.
(Iti 17)
As he was seated to one side, Ven. Ananda said to the Blessed One, "This is half of the holy life, lord: having admirable people as friends, companions, & colleagues."
"Don't say that, Ananda. Don't say that. Having admirable people as friends, companions, & colleagues is actually the whole of the holy life. When a monk has admirable people as friends, companions, & colleagues, he can be expected to develop & pursue the noble eightfold path.”
(SN 45.2)
"And what is meant by admirable friendship? There is the case where a lay person, in whatever town or village he may dwell, spends time with householders or householders' sons, young or old, who are advanced in virtue. He talks with them, engages them in discussions. He emulates consummate conviction in those who are consummate in conviction, consummate virtue in those who are consummate in virtue, consummate generosity in those who are consummate in generosity, and consummate discernment in those who are consummate in discernment. This is called admirable friendship.”
(AN 8.54)
"It's through living together that a person's virtue may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
"It's through dealing with a person that his purity may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
"It's through adversity that a person's endurance may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
"It's through discussion that a person's discernment may be known, and then only after a long period, not a short period; by one who is attentive, not by one who is inattentive; by one who is discerning, not by one who is not discerning.
(AN 4.12)
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No Matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”
(S. Beckett)
-"We Are Not One" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
A Ritual to Read to Each Other (William Stafford)
If you don't know the kind of person I am
and I don't know the kind of person you are
a pattern that others made may prevail in the world
and following the wrong god home we may miss our star.
For there is many a small betrayal in the mind,
a shrug that lets the fragile sequence break
sending with shouts the horrible errors of childhood
storming out to play through the broken dike.
And as elephants parade holding each elephant's tail,
but if one wanders the circus won't find the park,
I call it cruel and maybe the root of all cruelty
to know what occurs but not recognize the fact.
And so I appeal to a voice, to something shadowy,
a remote important region in all who talk:
though we could fool each other, we should consider--
lest the parade of our mutual life get lost in the dark.
For it is important that awake people be awake,
or a breaking line may discourage them back to sleep;
the signals we give — yes or no, or maybe --
should be clear: the darkness around us is deep.
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March 29
-"Practice More"
-as dharma students, our goal is to free the heart of its burdens and, in turn, to know the happiness of heart. we free the heart of its burdens through wisdom. and we attain wisdom, understanding, by developing the path. the heart of the path is concentration. specifically, jhana, the Buddha's concentration. if we seek to know a greater happiness, we must develop in our practice, in our meditation. this is the path. this is the way to a greater happiness. the dharma students seeks to deepen her practice, her meditation. she seeks to practice accordingly, following the Buddha's instructions. and she seeks to put time and effort into her practice. the more we practice, the closer we move toward the heart, toward wisdom, toward happiness of heart. we should, then, think about practicing more. can we make the resolve to practice more? this is a question that the serious dharma student must learn to ask
-some things to to remember as we seek to make the effort to "practice more"...
1-wisdom is what enables us to free the heart of its burdens and know true happiness.....
-this wisdom is not the wisdom acquired through study....
-it's not intellectual wisdom....
-this wisdom is cultivated by paying attention to our experience....
-understanding our experience, as it is, in the body....
-understanding our experience, gradually, in the heart....
2- the development of concentration leads to wisdom....
-as concentration develops, wisdom develops....
-specifically, the concentration known as jhana....
-strong concentration....
-including full body awareness....
-if we want to grown in wisdom ... and find a greater happiness ... we must develop our concentration/jhana....
3-to further develop in our practice, we should think about practicing more...
-we should learn to develop our skill....
-to 'practice accordingly', following the Buddha''s instructions for breath meditation....
-we should put more time into practicing meditation....
4-make a plan to practice more....
-a suggestion....
-make a plan to practice more....
-make a resolve to practice more....
-reflect on this resolve ... on why you are doing this....
-make a plan....
-even if it is very modest ... for instance, to sit for five additional minutes....
-choose a plan that is do-able....
-that you can follow wholeheartedly....
-pay attention to the results....
5- the "nava sutta' offers some insights into how we find freedom from suffering....
-"nava sutta" (the ship)
-the sutta includes three important metaphors....
1-the hen & her eggs....
-the hen wants her eggs to hatch ... but she has to sit on them....
-we want to end our suffering and know a greater happiness ... but we have to develop the path, concentration/jhana....
2-the axe handle....
-after using the axe for awhile, we don't notice a difference in the handle...
-we practice meditation and at first may not see results ... but we are making progress...
3-the ship....
-after months at sea and the long winter, the stays of the ship wither and fall away....
-when we develop our practice ... the fetters that bind us, our clinging, withers and falls away....
-reading.....
-"Nava Sutta/The Ship" (SN 22.101)
-"The Ship" (Peter Doobinin)
-"Practice More"
-as dharma students, our goal is to free the heart of its burdens and, in turn, to know the happiness of heart. we free the heart of its burdens through wisdom. and we attain wisdom, understanding, by developing the path. the heart of the path is concentration. specifically, jhana, the Buddha's concentration. if we seek to know a greater happiness, we must develop in our practice, in our meditation. this is the path. this is the way to a greater happiness. the dharma students seeks to deepen her practice, her meditation. she seeks to practice accordingly, following the Buddha's instructions. and she seeks to put time and effort into her practice. the more we practice, the closer we move toward the heart, toward wisdom, toward happiness of heart. we should, then, think about practicing more. can we make the resolve to practice more? this is a question that the serious dharma student must learn to ask
-some things to to remember as we seek to make the effort to "practice more"...
1-wisdom is what enables us to free the heart of its burdens and know true happiness.....
-this wisdom is not the wisdom acquired through study....
-it's not intellectual wisdom....
-this wisdom is cultivated by paying attention to our experience....
-understanding our experience, as it is, in the body....
-understanding our experience, gradually, in the heart....
2- the development of concentration leads to wisdom....
-as concentration develops, wisdom develops....
-specifically, the concentration known as jhana....
-strong concentration....
-including full body awareness....
-if we want to grown in wisdom ... and find a greater happiness ... we must develop our concentration/jhana....
3-to further develop in our practice, we should think about practicing more...
-we should learn to develop our skill....
-to 'practice accordingly', following the Buddha''s instructions for breath meditation....
-we should put more time into practicing meditation....
4-make a plan to practice more....
-a suggestion....
-make a plan to practice more....
-make a resolve to practice more....
-reflect on this resolve ... on why you are doing this....
-make a plan....
-even if it is very modest ... for instance, to sit for five additional minutes....
-choose a plan that is do-able....
-that you can follow wholeheartedly....
-pay attention to the results....
5- the "nava sutta' offers some insights into how we find freedom from suffering....
-"nava sutta" (the ship)
-the sutta includes three important metaphors....
1-the hen & her eggs....
-the hen wants her eggs to hatch ... but she has to sit on them....
-we want to end our suffering and know a greater happiness ... but we have to develop the path, concentration/jhana....
2-the axe handle....
-after using the axe for awhile, we don't notice a difference in the handle...
-we practice meditation and at first may not see results ... but we are making progress...
3-the ship....
-after months at sea and the long winter, the stays of the ship wither and fall away....
-when we develop our practice ... the fetters that bind us, our clinging, withers and falls away....
-reading.....
-"Nava Sutta/The Ship" (SN 22.101)
-"The Ship" (Peter Doobinin)
| the_ship_by_peter_doobinin.pdf |
"Even though this wish may occur to a monk who dwells without devoting himself to development — 'O that my mind might be released from effluents through lack of clinging!' — still his mind is not released from the effluents through lack of clinging. Why is that? From lack of developing, it should be said. Lack of developing what? The four frames of reference, the four right exertions, the four bases of power, the five faculties, the five strengths, the seven factors for Awakening, the noble eightfold path.
"Suppose a hen has eight, ten, or twelve eggs: If she doesn't cover them rightly, warm them rightly, or incubate them rightly, then even though this wish may occur to her — 'O that my chicks might break through the egg shells with their spiked claws or beaks and hatch out safely!' — still it is not possible that the chicks will break through the egg shells with their spiked claws or beaks and hatch out safely. Why is that? Because the hen has not covered them rightly, warmed them rightly, or incubated them rightly. In the same way, even though this wish may occur to a monk who dwells without devoting himself to development — 'O that my mind might be released from effluents through lack of clinging!' — still his mind is not released from the effluents through lack of clinging. Why is that? From lack of developing, it should be said. Lack of developing what? The four frames of reference, the four right exertions, the four bases of power, the five faculties, the five strengths, the seven factors for Awakening, the noble eightfold path.
"Even though this wish may not occur to a monk who dwells devoting himself to development — 'O that my mind might be released from effluents through lack of clinging!' — still his mind is released from the effluents through lack of clinging. Why is that? From developing, it should be said. Developing what? The four frames of reference, the four right exertions, the four bases of power, the five faculties, the five strengths, the seven factors for Awakening, the noble eightfold path.
"Suppose a hen has eight, ten, or twelve eggs that she covers rightly, warms rightly, & incubates rightly: Even though this wish may not occur to her — 'O that my chicks might break through the egg shells with their spiked claws or beaks and hatch out safely!' — still it is possible that the chicks will break through the egg shells with their spiked claws or beaks and hatch out safely. Why is that? Because the hen has covered them, warmed them, & incubated them rightly. In the same way, even though this wish may not occur to a monk who dwells devoting himself to development — 'O that my mind might be released from effluents through lack of clinging!' — still his mind is released from the effluents through lack of clinging. Why is that? From developing, it should be said. Developing what? The four frames of reference, the four right exertions, the four bases of power, the five faculties, the five strengths, the seven factors for Awakening, the noble eightfold path."
(SN 22.101)
So it is with the quality of your concentration. If your thinking and evaluation are subtle, thorough, and circumspect, your "concentration work" will result in more and more stillness of mind. If your thinking and evaluation are slipshod and crude, you won't get much stillness. Your body will ache, and you'll feel restless and irritable. Once the mind can become very still, though, the body will be comfortable and at ease. Your heart will feel open and clear. Pains will disappear. The elements of the body will feel normal: The warmth in your body will be just right, neither too hot nor too cold. As soon as your work is finished, it'll result in the highest form of happiness and ease: nibbana — Liberation. But as long as you still have work to do, your heart won't get its full measure of peace. Wherever you go, there will always be something nagging at the back of your mind. Once your work is done, though, you can be carefree wherever you go.
If you haven't finished your job, it's because (1) you haven't set your mind on it and (2) you haven't actually done the work. You've shirked your duties and played truant. But if you really set your mind on doing the job, there's no doubt but that you'll finish it.
(Ajaan Lee)
"Over there are the roots of trees; over there, empty dwellings. Practice jhana, monks. Don't be heedless. Don't later fall into regret. This is our message to you."
(MN 19)
March 22
-"The Further Shore"
-the dharma, the Buddha's path, is an optimistic path. as dharma students, we come to understand that there is a true happiness that we can know in this life. and we resolve to know this true happiness. to live happily. to live joyfully. in meditation, we learn to develop qualities that put us in position to live happily. and in the process of meditation itself, we learn to live joyfully. we cultivate appreciation and skillful intention. and, importantly, we learn to see the unskillful qualities of mind that prevent us from the heart, from happiness. we see the unskillful intentions in the mind. we cultivate wisdom, seeing these qualities of aversion, desire, delusion. as dharma students we bring these same skills into our daily lives. we learn to live our live happily by cultivating skillful intention, by seeing what's getting in the way of the heart. in practicing accordingly, we make it over the river of suffering and pain. we make our way to the further shore.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the skills that enable us to make it to "the further shore"...
1-the Buddha's path is an optimistic path.....
-our tendency of mind - our karma - may be to have a pessimistic view of life....
-but the path, the dharma, is an optimistic path....
-we understanding that we can live happily ... there is a happiness that we can know in this very life....
-understanding this ... we resolve to live happily....
2- in meditation practice, we learn skills that support us in efforts to live happily....
-we cultivate a bright mind.....
-gratitude....
-appreciation....
-we recognize the goodness in ourselves, the goodness in the world....
-we cultivate skillful intention....
-intention informed by compassion/metta....
-understanding that there is true happiness in this life and that we can know it ... we set the intention to practice in support of the wish we have to live happily....
-we remind ourselves of this intention....
-we make an effort to stay in tune with this intention...
3-in meditation, we are mindful & alert; we see when our intention is not skillful...
-we see how the mind is....
-we see how we are practicing.....
-we see when the mind/intention has turned unskillful....
-the three primary forms of unskillful mind/intention....
1-aversion
-aversive to some element of the meditation ... body ... mind....
-aversive to the meditation itself.....
-not wanting....
-disliking....
-negativity....
2-desire
-wanting it to be a certain way....
-wanting some sort of state ... state of concentration ... altered state....
-wanting to go into a deluded state....
-wanting to be good ... a good meditator, etc....
3-delusion
-lack of skillful intention....
-lack of sense of purpose....
-lack of motivation....
-laziness....
4-the states in which the mind/intention is unskillful are doorways....
-instead of disliking these states ... trying to get rid of them ... we bring attention to them....
-we understand that they are often doorways....
-we are seeing our habitual ways of being unskillful....
-we are seeing what is preventing us from the heart....
-it is only be seeing what is preventing us from the heart that we are able to get to the heart....
-first noble truth....
5- these skills that we practice in meditation, we bring into our daily lives....
-we see the quality of mind/intention in all our postures, as we go through our days....
-we are alert....
-we look to see the quality of mind/intention....
-we ask, how am I meeting my experience....?
-we ask, how am I going through my day....?
-in all postures we deepen our skillful intention....
-we make an effort to cultivate intention informed by compassion/love....
-we cultivate skillful intention in all our actions....
-blatant & subtle....
-reading.....
-the sections on "Preparing the Mind" from Skillful Pleasure...
-"The Further Shore"
-the dharma, the Buddha's path, is an optimistic path. as dharma students, we come to understand that there is a true happiness that we can know in this life. and we resolve to know this true happiness. to live happily. to live joyfully. in meditation, we learn to develop qualities that put us in position to live happily. and in the process of meditation itself, we learn to live joyfully. we cultivate appreciation and skillful intention. and, importantly, we learn to see the unskillful qualities of mind that prevent us from the heart, from happiness. we see the unskillful intentions in the mind. we cultivate wisdom, seeing these qualities of aversion, desire, delusion. as dharma students we bring these same skills into our daily lives. we learn to live our live happily by cultivating skillful intention, by seeing what's getting in the way of the heart. in practicing accordingly, we make it over the river of suffering and pain. we make our way to the further shore.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the skills that enable us to make it to "the further shore"...
1-the Buddha's path is an optimistic path.....
-our tendency of mind - our karma - may be to have a pessimistic view of life....
-but the path, the dharma, is an optimistic path....
-we understanding that we can live happily ... there is a happiness that we can know in this very life....
-understanding this ... we resolve to live happily....
2- in meditation practice, we learn skills that support us in efforts to live happily....
-we cultivate a bright mind.....
-gratitude....
-appreciation....
-we recognize the goodness in ourselves, the goodness in the world....
-we cultivate skillful intention....
-intention informed by compassion/metta....
-understanding that there is true happiness in this life and that we can know it ... we set the intention to practice in support of the wish we have to live happily....
-we remind ourselves of this intention....
-we make an effort to stay in tune with this intention...
3-in meditation, we are mindful & alert; we see when our intention is not skillful...
-we see how the mind is....
-we see how we are practicing.....
-we see when the mind/intention has turned unskillful....
-the three primary forms of unskillful mind/intention....
1-aversion
-aversive to some element of the meditation ... body ... mind....
-aversive to the meditation itself.....
-not wanting....
-disliking....
-negativity....
2-desire
-wanting it to be a certain way....
-wanting some sort of state ... state of concentration ... altered state....
-wanting to go into a deluded state....
-wanting to be good ... a good meditator, etc....
3-delusion
-lack of skillful intention....
-lack of sense of purpose....
-lack of motivation....
-laziness....
4-the states in which the mind/intention is unskillful are doorways....
-instead of disliking these states ... trying to get rid of them ... we bring attention to them....
-we understand that they are often doorways....
-we are seeing our habitual ways of being unskillful....
-we are seeing what is preventing us from the heart....
-it is only be seeing what is preventing us from the heart that we are able to get to the heart....
-first noble truth....
5- these skills that we practice in meditation, we bring into our daily lives....
-we see the quality of mind/intention in all our postures, as we go through our days....
-we are alert....
-we look to see the quality of mind/intention....
-we ask, how am I meeting my experience....?
-we ask, how am I going through my day....?
-in all postures we deepen our skillful intention....
-we make an effort to cultivate intention informed by compassion/love....
-we cultivate skillful intention in all our actions....
-blatant & subtle....
-reading.....
-the sections on "Preparing the Mind" from Skillful Pleasure...
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-"The Road to Nirvana is Paved with Skillful Intentions" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
Where Everything is Music (Rumi)
Don’t worry about saving these songs!
And if one of our instruments breaks,
it doesn’t matter.
We have fallen into the place
where everything is music.
The strumming and the flute notes
rise into the atmosphere,
and even if the whole world’s harp
should burn up, there will still be
hidden instruments playing.
So the candle flickers and goes out.
We have a piece of flint, and a spark.
This singing art is sea foam.
The graceful movements come from a pearl
somewhere on the ocean floor.
Poems reach up like spindrift and the edge
of driftwood along the beach, wanting!
They derive
from a slow and powerful root
that we can’t see.
Stop the words now.
Open the window in the centre of your chest,
and let the spirits fly in and out.
The guest is inside you (Kabir)
The guest is inside you, and also inside me;
you know the sprout is hidden inside the seed.
We are all struggling; none of us has gone far.
Let your arrogance go, and look around inside.
The blue sky opens out farther and farther,
the daily sense of failure goes away,
the damage I have done to myself fades,
a million suns come forward with light,
when I sit firmly in that world.
I hear bells ringing that no one has shaken,
inside "love" there is more joy than we know of,
rain pours down, although the sky is clear of clouds,
there are whole rivers of light.
The universe is shot through in all parts by a single sort of love.
How hard it is to feel that joy in all our four bodies!
Those who hope to be reasonable about it fail.
The arrogance of reason has separated us from that love.
With the word "reason" you already feel miles away.
How lucky Kabir is, that surrounded by all this joy
he sings inside his own little boat.
His poems amount to one soul meeting another.
These songs are about forgetting dying and loss.
They rise above both coming in and going out.
March 15
-"Are We Moving Toward the Heart?"
-as dharma students, our task is to live joyfully, to that end, we make a decision to live joyfully. we make a decision to live happily, to take action supports us in knowing happiness of heart. a good question for us to ask, as we consider the actions we take, is: is this actions leading to the heart or away from the heart. this is the question that we should learn to ask in our relationship to sense pleasures, including the forms of technology, the phone, the Internet, and so forth. we should learn to ask: is partaking in this sense experience/technology leading me to the heart or away from the heart. this is our guiding principle. the Buddha is concerned with just this, is what we're doing causing the heart to be burdened. as dharma students, we ask the questions and we pay attention. we look to see if in fact what we're doing is causing the heart to be burdened. this is how we develop wisdom. it is through asking these questions and paying attention that we learn to do what will bring us happiness of heart. it is how we learn to live joyfully.
-some things to to remember as we learn to ask the question "are we moving toward the heart?"...
1-as dharma students, in considering our actions, we should learn to ask, are we moving toward the heart?.....
-as dharma students, our task is to live joyfully....
-to live happily....
-to have happiness of heart.....
-a heart that is unburdened....
-as we make an effort to fulfill our task, as dharma students, a good question for us to ask is:
-is what I'm doing leading to the heart ... or is what I'm doing leading away from the heart....?
2- as we make an effort to develop a skillful relationship to sense pleasures, including technological forms, we should ask this question....
-it is essential, in following the path, that we have a skillful relationship to sense pleasure....
-including the various forms of technology....
-phone....
-internet....
-television....
-in developing this skillful relationship, we might ask....
-is this action, in partaking in this sense experience, leading me to the heart ... or is it leading away from the heart....?
-we should, in considering our actions, and asking this question, practice what the Buddha calls "repeated reflection"....
-we ask this question on an ongoing basis....
-if we do this, understanding develops, gradually, in the heart.....
-it is this understanding, developed gradually, through repeated reflection, that leads to action that is in support of the heart....
-happiness of heart....
3-we ask the question, and we pay attention......
-our task is to ask the question....
-and to pay attention to our experience....
-as it is, in the body....
-as it is, in the heart....
-often our capacity to become more skillful, to abandon unskillful action, to let go of our preoccupation with certain sense experiences, comes from indulging in these experiences ... asking the questions ... and paying attention....
-not judging our actions....
-but rather seeing clearly the consequences of these actions....
-in terms of the heart....
-in terms of our ability to live joyfully....
-in terms of our ability to make the most of our lives....
4-meditation supports our ability to see clearly....
-our meditation practice is crucial in being able to ask the questions, pay attention, and develop in wisdom....
-meditation enables us to develop in our ability to keep our awareness in the body....
-we are therefore able to pay attention to our experience....
-we are able to develop in sensitivity....
-more and more, we see clearly....
-we discern the burdens on the heart, caused by certain actions....
-we discern the heart, when it is free of its burdens....
-we understand that the state in which the heart is free of its burdens is the state in which we'll be able to know happiness in this life....
-we are more resolved, therefore, to abandon any actions that cause the heart to be burdened.....
5- as we ask these questions, we live in tune with the heart....
-more and more, we take action that leads us to the heart....
-the question, is this action leading to the heart or away from the heart, is our guiding principle....
-as we develop in meditation, as we ask this question, our relationship to sense pleasures like the phone and the internet begins to change....
-we change, through wisdom....
-we change, through compassion ... we don't want to take any action that will cause the heart to be burdened....
-as we ask this question, we tune ourselves to the dharma....
-we become in tune with the dharma....
-we become in tune with the heart....
-reading.....
-the sections on "Renunciation" in The Skill of Living....
-"Trading Candy for Gold" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
"What do you think, Rahula: What is a mirror for?"
"For reflection, sir."
"In the same way, Rahula, bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions are to be done with repeated reflection.
"Whenever you want to do a bodily action, you should reflect on it: 'This bodily action I want to do — would it lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Would it be an unskillful bodily action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it would lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both; it would be an unskillful bodily action with painful consequences, painful results, then any bodily action of that sort is absolutely unfit for you to do. But if on reflection you know that it would not cause affliction... it would be a skillful bodily action with pleasant consequences, pleasant results, then any bodily action of that sort is fit for you to do.
"While you are doing a bodily action, you should reflect on it: 'This bodily action I am doing — is it leading to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Is it an unskillful bodily action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it is leading to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both... you should give it up. But if on reflection you know that it is not... you may continue with it.
"Having done a bodily action, you should reflect on it: 'This bodily action I have done — did it lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Was it an unskillful bodily action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it led to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both; it was an unskillful bodily action with painful consequences, painful results, then you should confess it, reveal it, lay it open to the Teacher or to a knowledgeable companion in the holy life. Having confessed it... you should exercise restraint in the future. But if on reflection you know that it did not lead to affliction... it was a skillful bodily action with pleasant consequences, pleasant results, then you should stay mentally refreshed & joyful, training day & night in skillful mental qualities."
(MN 61)
Thus have I heard. At one time the Lord was staying at Anupiya in the Mango Orchard. At that time the Venerable Bhaddiya, Kaligodha's son, on going into the forest to the foot of a tree or to an empty place, constantly uttered, "Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!"
A number of bhikkhus heard the Venerable Bhaddiya... constantly uttering, "Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!" and the thought came to them: "No doubt, friend, the Venerable Bhaddiya, Kaligodha's son, is dissatisfied with leading the holy life, since formerly when he was a householder he enjoyed the bliss of royalty. And when recollecting that, on going into the forest... he utters, 'Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!'"
Then a number of bhikkhus approached the Lord, prostrated themselves, sat down to one side, and reported this to the Lord.
Then the Lord addressed a certain bhikkhu: "Come, bhikkhu, in my name tell the bhikkhu Bhaddiya, 'The Teacher calls you, friend Bhaddiya.'"
"Very well, revered sir," the bhikkhu replied and approaching the Venerable Bhaddiya, Kaligodha's son, he said, "The Teacher calls you, friend Bhaddiya."
"Very well, friend," the Venerable Bhaddiya replied, and approaching the Lord he prostrated himself and sat down to one side. The Lord then said to him: "Is it true, Bhaddiya, that on going into the forest... you utter, 'Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!'?"
"Yes, revered sir."
"But, Bhaddiya, what do you see that prompts you to do so?"
"Formerly, revered sir, when I was a householder and enjoyed the bliss of royalty, inside and outside my inner apartments guards were appointed; inside and outside the city guards were appointed; inside and outside the district guards were appointed. But, revered sir, although I was thus guarded and protected, I lived fearful, agitated, distrustful, and afraid. But now, revered sir, on going alone into the forest, to the foot of a tree or to an empty place, I am fearless, unagitated, confident, and unafraid. I live unconcerned, unruffled, my needs satisfied, with a mind become like a deer's. Seeing this, revered sir, prompts me, on going to the forest... to utter constantly, 'Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!'"
(Ud 2.10)
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying near Sāvatthī at Jeta's Grove, Anāthapiṇḍika's monastery. And on that occasion, most of the people in Sāvatthī were excessively attached to sensual pleasures. They lived infatuated with, greedy for, addicted to, fastened to, absorbed in sensual pleasures. Then in the early morning, a large number of monks adjusted their under robes and — carrying their bowls & robes — went into Sāvatthī for alms. Having gone for alms in Sāvatthī, after the meal, returning from their alms round, they went to the Blessed One and, on arrival, having bowed down to him, sat to one side. As they were sitting there, they said to the Blessed One, "Most of the people in Sāvatthī are excessively attached to sensual pleasures. They live infatuated with, greedy for, addicted to, fastened to, absorbed in sensual pleasures."
Then, on realizing the significance of that, the Blessed One on that occasion exclaimed:
Attached to sensual pleasures,
attached to sensual ties,
seeing no blame in the fetter,
never will those attached to the fetter, the tie,
cross over the flood
so great & wide.
(Ud 7.3)
-"Are We Moving Toward the Heart?"
-as dharma students, our task is to live joyfully, to that end, we make a decision to live joyfully. we make a decision to live happily, to take action supports us in knowing happiness of heart. a good question for us to ask, as we consider the actions we take, is: is this actions leading to the heart or away from the heart. this is the question that we should learn to ask in our relationship to sense pleasures, including the forms of technology, the phone, the Internet, and so forth. we should learn to ask: is partaking in this sense experience/technology leading me to the heart or away from the heart. this is our guiding principle. the Buddha is concerned with just this, is what we're doing causing the heart to be burdened. as dharma students, we ask the questions and we pay attention. we look to see if in fact what we're doing is causing the heart to be burdened. this is how we develop wisdom. it is through asking these questions and paying attention that we learn to do what will bring us happiness of heart. it is how we learn to live joyfully.
-some things to to remember as we learn to ask the question "are we moving toward the heart?"...
1-as dharma students, in considering our actions, we should learn to ask, are we moving toward the heart?.....
-as dharma students, our task is to live joyfully....
-to live happily....
-to have happiness of heart.....
-a heart that is unburdened....
-as we make an effort to fulfill our task, as dharma students, a good question for us to ask is:
-is what I'm doing leading to the heart ... or is what I'm doing leading away from the heart....?
2- as we make an effort to develop a skillful relationship to sense pleasures, including technological forms, we should ask this question....
-it is essential, in following the path, that we have a skillful relationship to sense pleasure....
-including the various forms of technology....
-phone....
-internet....
-television....
-in developing this skillful relationship, we might ask....
-is this action, in partaking in this sense experience, leading me to the heart ... or is it leading away from the heart....?
-we should, in considering our actions, and asking this question, practice what the Buddha calls "repeated reflection"....
-we ask this question on an ongoing basis....
-if we do this, understanding develops, gradually, in the heart.....
-it is this understanding, developed gradually, through repeated reflection, that leads to action that is in support of the heart....
-happiness of heart....
3-we ask the question, and we pay attention......
-our task is to ask the question....
-and to pay attention to our experience....
-as it is, in the body....
-as it is, in the heart....
-often our capacity to become more skillful, to abandon unskillful action, to let go of our preoccupation with certain sense experiences, comes from indulging in these experiences ... asking the questions ... and paying attention....
-not judging our actions....
-but rather seeing clearly the consequences of these actions....
-in terms of the heart....
-in terms of our ability to live joyfully....
-in terms of our ability to make the most of our lives....
4-meditation supports our ability to see clearly....
-our meditation practice is crucial in being able to ask the questions, pay attention, and develop in wisdom....
-meditation enables us to develop in our ability to keep our awareness in the body....
-we are therefore able to pay attention to our experience....
-we are able to develop in sensitivity....
-more and more, we see clearly....
-we discern the burdens on the heart, caused by certain actions....
-we discern the heart, when it is free of its burdens....
-we understand that the state in which the heart is free of its burdens is the state in which we'll be able to know happiness in this life....
-we are more resolved, therefore, to abandon any actions that cause the heart to be burdened.....
5- as we ask these questions, we live in tune with the heart....
-more and more, we take action that leads us to the heart....
-the question, is this action leading to the heart or away from the heart, is our guiding principle....
-as we develop in meditation, as we ask this question, our relationship to sense pleasures like the phone and the internet begins to change....
-we change, through wisdom....
-we change, through compassion ... we don't want to take any action that will cause the heart to be burdened....
-as we ask this question, we tune ourselves to the dharma....
-we become in tune with the dharma....
-we become in tune with the heart....
-reading.....
-the sections on "Renunciation" in The Skill of Living....
-"Trading Candy for Gold" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
"What do you think, Rahula: What is a mirror for?"
"For reflection, sir."
"In the same way, Rahula, bodily actions, verbal actions, & mental actions are to be done with repeated reflection.
"Whenever you want to do a bodily action, you should reflect on it: 'This bodily action I want to do — would it lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Would it be an unskillful bodily action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it would lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both; it would be an unskillful bodily action with painful consequences, painful results, then any bodily action of that sort is absolutely unfit for you to do. But if on reflection you know that it would not cause affliction... it would be a skillful bodily action with pleasant consequences, pleasant results, then any bodily action of that sort is fit for you to do.
"While you are doing a bodily action, you should reflect on it: 'This bodily action I am doing — is it leading to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Is it an unskillful bodily action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it is leading to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both... you should give it up. But if on reflection you know that it is not... you may continue with it.
"Having done a bodily action, you should reflect on it: 'This bodily action I have done — did it lead to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both? Was it an unskillful bodily action, with painful consequences, painful results?' If, on reflection, you know that it led to self-affliction, to the affliction of others, or to both; it was an unskillful bodily action with painful consequences, painful results, then you should confess it, reveal it, lay it open to the Teacher or to a knowledgeable companion in the holy life. Having confessed it... you should exercise restraint in the future. But if on reflection you know that it did not lead to affliction... it was a skillful bodily action with pleasant consequences, pleasant results, then you should stay mentally refreshed & joyful, training day & night in skillful mental qualities."
(MN 61)
Thus have I heard. At one time the Lord was staying at Anupiya in the Mango Orchard. At that time the Venerable Bhaddiya, Kaligodha's son, on going into the forest to the foot of a tree or to an empty place, constantly uttered, "Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!"
A number of bhikkhus heard the Venerable Bhaddiya... constantly uttering, "Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!" and the thought came to them: "No doubt, friend, the Venerable Bhaddiya, Kaligodha's son, is dissatisfied with leading the holy life, since formerly when he was a householder he enjoyed the bliss of royalty. And when recollecting that, on going into the forest... he utters, 'Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!'"
Then a number of bhikkhus approached the Lord, prostrated themselves, sat down to one side, and reported this to the Lord.
Then the Lord addressed a certain bhikkhu: "Come, bhikkhu, in my name tell the bhikkhu Bhaddiya, 'The Teacher calls you, friend Bhaddiya.'"
"Very well, revered sir," the bhikkhu replied and approaching the Venerable Bhaddiya, Kaligodha's son, he said, "The Teacher calls you, friend Bhaddiya."
"Very well, friend," the Venerable Bhaddiya replied, and approaching the Lord he prostrated himself and sat down to one side. The Lord then said to him: "Is it true, Bhaddiya, that on going into the forest... you utter, 'Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!'?"
"Yes, revered sir."
"But, Bhaddiya, what do you see that prompts you to do so?"
"Formerly, revered sir, when I was a householder and enjoyed the bliss of royalty, inside and outside my inner apartments guards were appointed; inside and outside the city guards were appointed; inside and outside the district guards were appointed. But, revered sir, although I was thus guarded and protected, I lived fearful, agitated, distrustful, and afraid. But now, revered sir, on going alone into the forest, to the foot of a tree or to an empty place, I am fearless, unagitated, confident, and unafraid. I live unconcerned, unruffled, my needs satisfied, with a mind become like a deer's. Seeing this, revered sir, prompts me, on going to the forest... to utter constantly, 'Ah, what bliss! Ah, what bliss!'"
(Ud 2.10)
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying near Sāvatthī at Jeta's Grove, Anāthapiṇḍika's monastery. And on that occasion, most of the people in Sāvatthī were excessively attached to sensual pleasures. They lived infatuated with, greedy for, addicted to, fastened to, absorbed in sensual pleasures. Then in the early morning, a large number of monks adjusted their under robes and — carrying their bowls & robes — went into Sāvatthī for alms. Having gone for alms in Sāvatthī, after the meal, returning from their alms round, they went to the Blessed One and, on arrival, having bowed down to him, sat to one side. As they were sitting there, they said to the Blessed One, "Most of the people in Sāvatthī are excessively attached to sensual pleasures. They live infatuated with, greedy for, addicted to, fastened to, absorbed in sensual pleasures."
Then, on realizing the significance of that, the Blessed One on that occasion exclaimed:
Attached to sensual pleasures,
attached to sensual ties,
seeing no blame in the fetter,
never will those attached to the fetter, the tie,
cross over the flood
so great & wide.
(Ud 7.3)
March 8
-"The Decision to Live Joyfully"
-it's important, when there is difficulty in life, that we stay true to the Buddha's message, the teachings of the dharma. as dharma students, we don't lose sight of the truth. we remember the brightness in life. we remember the joy in life. we remember our capacity for happiness. and through it all, we resolve to live live joyfully. we understand that it is up to us to make a decision to live joyfully. if we don't make a resolve to live joyfully, we won't ever know the happiness that is available to us in this life. it's a challenge to make this resolve. we come up against our karma and the distractions of the world. but the practice of meditation enables us to transcend past karma, to be heedful, to make a decision to live joyfully. for this reason, we should make a commitment to practice, to meditate. we should understand that there is a sense of urgency in this regard. as dharma students, we are determined to follow the path, to practice, understanding that it is the way to a greater happiness.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the ability to make "the decision to live joyfully"...
1-there is a potential for joy in this life, this is the message that the Buddha's path offers.....
-as dharma students, we remember....
-there is joy in life....
-there is a potential to live joyfully....
-there is goodness....
-wisdom....
-love....
-joy....
-we find it, inside....
-the dharma is inside us....
2- as dharma students we make a decision to live joyfully.....
-we make a decision to be happy....
-to have happiness of heart....
-in order to know happiness, to live joyfully ... we have to make a decision to live joyfully....
-our happiness is up to us....
-we resolve to live joyfully....
-we take actions in the service of shaping our live....
-to this end, we develop the skills that the Buddha teaches....
3-we experience challenges & obstacles in our efforts to make the decision to live joyfully....
-it is often difficult to let go of our unhappiness....
-it is difficult to let go of our commitment to unhappiness....
-it is difficult to let go of our negative view ... of ourselves ... of others ... of life....
-our negativity, pessimism, is deeply habitual....
-we are invested in it...
-we are identified with it....
-we ascribe self to it....
-we believe it is who we are....
-our task ... is to see our negativity ... to abandon it....
-we learn to reflect: can we let go of our negativity ... our unhappiness ....?
4-we should ask: can we make a resolve to live joyfully....?
-as dharma students, we're asked to make a resolve to live joyfully....
-can we do this...?
-what is stopping us....?
-in the end, it comes down to making a decision....
-understanding that we are responsible for our happiness....
-understanding that having this sort of resolve is imperative....
-understanding that the mind determines our happiness: all that we are begins with our thoughts, including our intentions....
5- meditation enables us to make the resolve to live joyfully.....
-we develop meditation practice, we cultivate concentration/jhana....
-meditation, the cultivation of concentration, enables us to see our past karma....
-our negativity....
-our resolves that lead to unhappiness....
-we see the drawbacks in replaying our past karma....
-meditation enables us to be heedful....
-to have space....
-to make a conscious decision to live joyfully.....
-in the long term....
-from day to day....
-from moment to moment....
-meditation enables us to see the brightness of the world....
-the joy of living....
-we come to know it, in the heart....
-we come to know the dharma inside.....
-there is a sense of urgency: we should make the effort to practice meditation, now, while we're able to....
-our practice is what will enable us to make the decision to live joyfully ... to know the joy of living....
-putting effort & determination into meditation is time well spent....
-reading.....
-"Making the Most of Each Day" (Ayya Khema)
"There are these five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained. Which five?
"'I am subject to aging, have not gone beyond aging.' This is the first fact that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained.
"'I am subject to illness, have not gone beyond illness.' ...
"'I am subject to death, have not gone beyond death.' ...
"'I will grow different, separate from all that is dear and appealing to me.' ...
"'I am the owner of my actions, heir to my actions, born of my actions, related through my actions, and have my actions as my arbitrator. Whatever I do, for good or for evil, to that will I fall heir.' ...
"These are the five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained."
(AN 5.57)
You shouldn't chase after the past
or place expectations on the future.
What is past
is left behind.
The future
is as yet unreached.
Whatever quality is present
you clearly see right there,
right there.
Not taken in,
unshaken,
that's how you develop the heart.
Ardently doing
what should be done today,
for — who knows? — tomorrow
death.
There is no bargaining
with Mortality & his mighty horde.
Whoever lives thus ardently,
relentlessly
both day & night,
has truly had an auspicious day:
so says the Peaceful Sage.
(MN 131
We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aids, but by an infinite expectation of the dawn, which does not forsake us in our soundest sleep. I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by conscious endeavor. It is something to be able to paint a particular picture, or to carve a statue, and so to make a few objects beautiful; but it is far more glorious to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look, which morally we can do. To affect the quality of the day, that is the highest of arts.
(Thoreau)
“The Way It Is” (William Stafford)
There’s a thread you follow. It goes among
things that change. But it doesn’t change.
People wonder about what you are pursuing.
You have to explain about the thread.
But it is hard for others to see.
While you hold it you can’t get lost.
Tragedies happen; people get hurt
or die: and you suffer and get old.
Nothing you do can stop time’s unfolding.
You don’t ever let go of the thread.
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-"The Decision to Live Joyfully"
-it's important, when there is difficulty in life, that we stay true to the Buddha's message, the teachings of the dharma. as dharma students, we don't lose sight of the truth. we remember the brightness in life. we remember the joy in life. we remember our capacity for happiness. and through it all, we resolve to live live joyfully. we understand that it is up to us to make a decision to live joyfully. if we don't make a resolve to live joyfully, we won't ever know the happiness that is available to us in this life. it's a challenge to make this resolve. we come up against our karma and the distractions of the world. but the practice of meditation enables us to transcend past karma, to be heedful, to make a decision to live joyfully. for this reason, we should make a commitment to practice, to meditate. we should understand that there is a sense of urgency in this regard. as dharma students, we are determined to follow the path, to practice, understanding that it is the way to a greater happiness.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the ability to make "the decision to live joyfully"...
1-there is a potential for joy in this life, this is the message that the Buddha's path offers.....
-as dharma students, we remember....
-there is joy in life....
-there is a potential to live joyfully....
-there is goodness....
-wisdom....
-love....
-joy....
-we find it, inside....
-the dharma is inside us....
2- as dharma students we make a decision to live joyfully.....
-we make a decision to be happy....
-to have happiness of heart....
-in order to know happiness, to live joyfully ... we have to make a decision to live joyfully....
-our happiness is up to us....
-we resolve to live joyfully....
-we take actions in the service of shaping our live....
-to this end, we develop the skills that the Buddha teaches....
3-we experience challenges & obstacles in our efforts to make the decision to live joyfully....
-it is often difficult to let go of our unhappiness....
-it is difficult to let go of our commitment to unhappiness....
-it is difficult to let go of our negative view ... of ourselves ... of others ... of life....
-our negativity, pessimism, is deeply habitual....
-we are invested in it...
-we are identified with it....
-we ascribe self to it....
-we believe it is who we are....
-our task ... is to see our negativity ... to abandon it....
-we learn to reflect: can we let go of our negativity ... our unhappiness ....?
4-we should ask: can we make a resolve to live joyfully....?
-as dharma students, we're asked to make a resolve to live joyfully....
-can we do this...?
-what is stopping us....?
-in the end, it comes down to making a decision....
-understanding that we are responsible for our happiness....
-understanding that having this sort of resolve is imperative....
-understanding that the mind determines our happiness: all that we are begins with our thoughts, including our intentions....
5- meditation enables us to make the resolve to live joyfully.....
-we develop meditation practice, we cultivate concentration/jhana....
-meditation, the cultivation of concentration, enables us to see our past karma....
-our negativity....
-our resolves that lead to unhappiness....
-we see the drawbacks in replaying our past karma....
-meditation enables us to be heedful....
-to have space....
-to make a conscious decision to live joyfully.....
-in the long term....
-from day to day....
-from moment to moment....
-meditation enables us to see the brightness of the world....
-the joy of living....
-we come to know it, in the heart....
-we come to know the dharma inside.....
-there is a sense of urgency: we should make the effort to practice meditation, now, while we're able to....
-our practice is what will enable us to make the decision to live joyfully ... to know the joy of living....
-putting effort & determination into meditation is time well spent....
-reading.....
-"Making the Most of Each Day" (Ayya Khema)
"There are these five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained. Which five?
"'I am subject to aging, have not gone beyond aging.' This is the first fact that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained.
"'I am subject to illness, have not gone beyond illness.' ...
"'I am subject to death, have not gone beyond death.' ...
"'I will grow different, separate from all that is dear and appealing to me.' ...
"'I am the owner of my actions, heir to my actions, born of my actions, related through my actions, and have my actions as my arbitrator. Whatever I do, for good or for evil, to that will I fall heir.' ...
"These are the five facts that one should reflect on often, whether one is a woman or a man, lay or ordained."
(AN 5.57)
You shouldn't chase after the past
or place expectations on the future.
What is past
is left behind.
The future
is as yet unreached.
Whatever quality is present
you clearly see right there,
right there.
Not taken in,
unshaken,
that's how you develop the heart.
Ardently doing
what should be done today,
for — who knows? — tomorrow
death.
There is no bargaining
with Mortality & his mighty horde.
Whoever lives thus ardently,
relentlessly
both day & night,
has truly had an auspicious day:
so says the Peaceful Sage.
(MN 131
We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aids, but by an infinite expectation of the dawn, which does not forsake us in our soundest sleep. I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by conscious endeavor. It is something to be able to paint a particular picture, or to carve a statue, and so to make a few objects beautiful; but it is far more glorious to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look, which morally we can do. To affect the quality of the day, that is the highest of arts.
(Thoreau)
“The Way It Is” (William Stafford)
There’s a thread you follow. It goes among
things that change. But it doesn’t change.
People wonder about what you are pursuing.
You have to explain about the thread.
But it is hard for others to see.
While you hold it you can’t get lost.
Tragedies happen; people get hurt
or die: and you suffer and get old.
Nothing you do can stop time’s unfolding.
You don’t ever let go of the thread.
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March 1
-"Keep to the Heart"
-as dharma students, as human beings, we meet difficulties in life. we meet difficulty, in ourselves, in others, in the world. through it all, we stay true. we stay true to ourselves. we stay true to the dharma. we stay true to the heart. we don't lose the heart. we don't lose heart. we keep to the heart. it's important to remember, what enables us to keep to the heart are the skills that we develop as dharma students. we practice these skills in meditation. and we learn to practice these skills in all our postures as we go through our days. we can think of these skills as encompassing two main elements. one, we make an effort to develop and maintain the qualities of jhana. and, two, we make an effort to cultivate a skillful attitude. if we do this, we'll be able to stay close to the heart. and, in turn, we'll be able to take action that is an expression of the heart, our goodness, and who we are.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the ability to "keep to the heart"...
1-in meeting the difficulties and challenges in life, we stay true to ourselves.....
-in this life, we meet difficulties....
-it is the nature of this life....
-we meet difficulty....
-in ourselves....
-our body....
-0ur mind....
-in others....
-in the world....
-as dharma students, we don't get thrown by difficulty....
-we don't lose ourselves ... we don't lose the heart....
-we don't lose ourselves in thinking....
-we don't lose ourselves in external sense experiences (technology etc).....
-we stay true to ourselves, to the dharma, to our heart....
-this ability to stay true, to keep to the heart, is achieved by practicing certain skills....
2- as dharma students we make a proactive effort to shape our experience.....
-in meditation, we develop this skill....
-we shape our experience....
-in all postures, in our days & nights, we maintain this skill.....
-we shape our experience...
-there are two primary factors in shaping our experience:
1-we cultivate jhana qualities....
2-we cultivate skillful attitude....
3-we shape our experience by cultivating the qualities of jhana.....
-in meditation, we learn to develop these qualities....
-singleness of mind: the ability to keep the mind in the present moment, in the body, with the breath....
-through mindfulness and alertness, we keep the mind on the breath ... we don't pursue thinking.....
-bringing insight to thinking is an essential element in this part of the training....
-asking questions such as "is it useful....?" when we engage in thinking....
-ease and inner pleasure....
-following the steps of breath meditation, we learn to shape an experience of the body that is easeful, pleasurable....
-in all postures, we seek to maintain these qualities of jhana....
-we make an effort to keep the mind in the present moment....
-we make an effort to "call up" the qualities of ease and inner pleasure.....
4-we shape our experience by cultivating skillful attitude.....
-in meditation, we cultivate a skillful attitude.....
-we engage in the action of meditation with a skillful attitude....
-we make an effort to cultivate attitudes of appreciation and skillful intention....
-skillful attitude; we shape our experience so that it is informed by....
-brightness (appreciation; joy)....
-we cultivate gratitude, remembering the blessing of our goodness and the goodness in life....
-skillful intention....
-in taking action, we set skillful intention....
-intention informed by lovingkindness....
-intention informed by compassion (when there is suffering)....
5- as we go through our days, we shape our experience, and in doing so, we stay close to the heart....
-we make an ongoing effort to shape our experience....
-as described above....
-shaping our experience, cultivating the an easeful abiding and taking action informed by skillful qualities....
-we keep to the heart.
-we are able to take action informed by the heart....
-action in the service of love for ourselves and all beings....
-reading.....
-"At Ease in the World" (from Skillful Pleasure)
-"Keep to the Heart"
-as dharma students, as human beings, we meet difficulties in life. we meet difficulty, in ourselves, in others, in the world. through it all, we stay true. we stay true to ourselves. we stay true to the dharma. we stay true to the heart. we don't lose the heart. we don't lose heart. we keep to the heart. it's important to remember, what enables us to keep to the heart are the skills that we develop as dharma students. we practice these skills in meditation. and we learn to practice these skills in all our postures as we go through our days. we can think of these skills as encompassing two main elements. one, we make an effort to develop and maintain the qualities of jhana. and, two, we make an effort to cultivate a skillful attitude. if we do this, we'll be able to stay close to the heart. and, in turn, we'll be able to take action that is an expression of the heart, our goodness, and who we are.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the ability to "keep to the heart"...
1-in meeting the difficulties and challenges in life, we stay true to ourselves.....
-in this life, we meet difficulties....
-it is the nature of this life....
-we meet difficulty....
-in ourselves....
-our body....
-0ur mind....
-in others....
-in the world....
-as dharma students, we don't get thrown by difficulty....
-we don't lose ourselves ... we don't lose the heart....
-we don't lose ourselves in thinking....
-we don't lose ourselves in external sense experiences (technology etc).....
-we stay true to ourselves, to the dharma, to our heart....
-this ability to stay true, to keep to the heart, is achieved by practicing certain skills....
2- as dharma students we make a proactive effort to shape our experience.....
-in meditation, we develop this skill....
-we shape our experience....
-in all postures, in our days & nights, we maintain this skill.....
-we shape our experience...
-there are two primary factors in shaping our experience:
1-we cultivate jhana qualities....
2-we cultivate skillful attitude....
3-we shape our experience by cultivating the qualities of jhana.....
-in meditation, we learn to develop these qualities....
-singleness of mind: the ability to keep the mind in the present moment, in the body, with the breath....
-through mindfulness and alertness, we keep the mind on the breath ... we don't pursue thinking.....
-bringing insight to thinking is an essential element in this part of the training....
-asking questions such as "is it useful....?" when we engage in thinking....
-ease and inner pleasure....
-following the steps of breath meditation, we learn to shape an experience of the body that is easeful, pleasurable....
-in all postures, we seek to maintain these qualities of jhana....
-we make an effort to keep the mind in the present moment....
-we make an effort to "call up" the qualities of ease and inner pleasure.....
4-we shape our experience by cultivating skillful attitude.....
-in meditation, we cultivate a skillful attitude.....
-we engage in the action of meditation with a skillful attitude....
-we make an effort to cultivate attitudes of appreciation and skillful intention....
-skillful attitude; we shape our experience so that it is informed by....
-brightness (appreciation; joy)....
-we cultivate gratitude, remembering the blessing of our goodness and the goodness in life....
-skillful intention....
-in taking action, we set skillful intention....
-intention informed by lovingkindness....
-intention informed by compassion (when there is suffering)....
5- as we go through our days, we shape our experience, and in doing so, we stay close to the heart....
-we make an ongoing effort to shape our experience....
-as described above....
-shaping our experience, cultivating the an easeful abiding and taking action informed by skillful qualities....
-we keep to the heart.
-we are able to take action informed by the heart....
-action in the service of love for ourselves and all beings....
-reading.....
-"At Ease in the World" (from Skillful Pleasure)
| skillful_pleasure_at_ease_in_world.pdf |
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying at Varanasi in the Game Refuge at Isipatana. There he addressed the group of five monks:
"There are these two extremes that are not to be indulged in by one who has gone forth. Which two? That which is devoted to sensual pleasure with reference to sensual objects: base, vulgar, common, ignoble, unprofitable; and that which is devoted to self-affliction: painful, ignoble, unprofitable. Avoiding both of these extremes, the middle way realized by the Tathagata — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"And what is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding? Precisely this Noble Eightfold Path: right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. This is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"Now this, monks, is the noble truth of stress:[1] Birth is stressful, aging is stressful, death is stressful; sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, & despair are stressful; association with the unbeloved is stressful, separation from the loved is stressful, not getting what is wanted is stressful. In short, the five clinging-aggregates are stressful.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the origination of stress: the craving that makes for further becoming — accompanied by passion & delight, relishing now here & now there — i.e., craving for sensual pleasure, craving for becoming, craving for non-becoming.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the cessation of stress: the remainderless fading & cessation, renunciation, relinquishment, release, & letting go of that very craving.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the way of practice leading to the cessation of stress: precisely this Noble Eightfold Path — right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration.'
(SN 56.11)
At Savatthi. Then, early in the morning, Soma the nun put on her robes and, taking her bowl & outer robe, went into Savatthi for alms. When she had gone for alms in Savatthi and had returned from her alms round, after her meal she went to the Grove of the Blind to spend the day. Having gone deep into the Grove of the Blind, she sat down at the foot of a tree for the day's abiding.
Then Mara the Evil One, wanting to arouse fear, horripilation, & terror in her, wanting to make her fall away from concentration, approached her & addressed her in verse:
That
which is
to be attained by seers
— the place so very hard to reach --
women
can't
— with their two-inch discernment --
attain.
Then the thought occurred to Soma the nun: "Now who has recited this verse — a human being or a non-human one?" Then it occurred to her: "This is Mara the Evil One, who has recited this verse wanting to arouse fear, horripilation, & terror in me, wanting to make me fall away from concentration."
Then, having understood that "This is Mara the Evil One," she replied to him in verses:
What
difference
does being a woman make
when the mind's well-centered,
when knowledge is progressing,
seeing clearly, rightly,
into the Dhamma.
Anyone who thinks
'I'm a woman'
or 'a man'
or 'Am I anything at all?' --
that's who Mara's
fit to address.
Then Mara the Evil One — sad & dejected at realizing, "Soma the nun knows me" — vanished right there.
(SN 5.2)
“The Way It Is” (William Stafford)
There’s a thread you follow. It goes among
things that change. But it doesn’t change.
People wonder about what you are pursuing.
You have to explain about the thread.
But it is hard for others to see.
While you hold it you can’t get lost.
Tragedies happen; people get hurt
or die: and you suffer and get old.
Nothing you do can stop time’s unfolding.
You don’t ever let go of the thread.
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February 22
-"The Challenges of Life"
-as dharma students, we develop meditation and the skills of mindfulness so that can awaken. in the process of awakening, we learn to meet life on life's terms. we learn to meet the difficulties and challenges of life. in doing so, we're not simply seeking to endure the challenges of life. we're seeking to learn. this is a crucial attitude for the dharma student to develop. to learn to see the challenges of life as places for learning, as opportunities, as doorways. typically, we run from the difficulties in life. as dharma students we meet difficulty with equanimity, calmness, and a willingness to learn. meditation is difficult; we accept the challenge of meditation. life is difficult; we accept the challenges it presents. we seek, as dharma students, to challenge ourselves. it is only when we're able to skillfully meet the challenges of life, head-on, that we're able to know the joy in life. dharma practice is about joy, true happiness, and being ourselves. the message of the path is a message of joy, brightness, true happiness. by meeting the challenges of life, we know the happiness that the path offers.
-some things to to remember as we learn to meet "the challenges of life"...
1-in following the path, we develop in qualities that enable us to awaken.....
-we cultivate good health....
-we take good care of the body....
-we cultivate....
-health....
-strength....
-ease....
-inner well being ... pleasure ... refreshment....
-the states of jhana -the Buddha's concentration - are states of 'good health'....
-ease/refreshment....
-inner pleasure....
-this 'good health' is conducive to awakening....
-awakening to the here & now....
-in the process of awakening we're asked to....
-meet life on life's terms....
-meet the challenges of life....
2- as dharma students we come to see the challenges of life as an opportunities....
-in meeting the challenges of life....
-we cultivate equanimity ... acceptance....
-and we learn to see these difficulties as places of learning....
-typically, we engender aversion/disliking when there is difficulty....
-as dharma students we cultivate a more skillful attitude, in the face of difficulty & challenge....
-we make it a learning experience....
-we understand that by skillfully meeting the challenges of life, we find our way through to true happiness....
3-we choose, as dharma students, to take on that which is difficult....
-meditation, if practiced accordingly, is difficult....
-in meditation, we're asked to confront the truth of our experience ... we're asked to meet ourselves....
-in dharma practice, following the Buddha's path, we're asked to meet dukkha/suffering....
-we practice in accord with the 1st noble truth; we seek to comprehend dukkha....
-it is through the comprehension of dukkha, that we come to know the heart ... joy ... happiness of heart....
-we learn, as dharma students, to be fully present and aware, when confronted with difficulty....
-the difficulty of illness/aging/death/separation....
-the difficulty that is inherent in living in the conditioned realm....
-the difficulty of body & mind....
4-as dharma students, we should seek to do things that are difficult....
-the tendency, for most beings, is to choose that which is comfortable....
-to go along with the stream....
-it behooves us, as dharma students, to take on challenges....
-everyday presents us with the opportunity to take on challenges....
-blatant & subtle.....
5- when we are able meet the challenges of life, we are able to know that joy in life....
-our tendency is to run from life, from reality....
-but when we run from life, we run from the joy in life....
-the path of the dharma is a path of joy ... true happiness....
-as we learn to meet life, we come to understand the joy that is innate to life....
-the joy in the heart....
-the happiness of heart....
-the practice is just this: to know this joy.....
-reading.....
-"At the Door of the Cage" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
Ven. Gavampati: Face to face with the Blessed One did I hear this, face to face did I learn it: whoever sees stress also sees the origination of stress, the cessation of stress, & the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress.
Whoever sees the origination of stress also sees stress, the cessation of stress, & the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress.
Whoever sees the cessation of stress also sees stress, the origination of stress, & the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress.
Whoever sees the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress also sees stress, the origination of stress, & the cessation of stress.
(SN 56.20)
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying at Varanasi in the Game Refuge at Isipatana. There he addressed the group of five monks:
"There are these two extremes that are not to be indulged in by one who has gone forth. Which two? That which is devoted to sensual pleasure with reference to sensual objects: base, vulgar, common, ignoble, unprofitable; and that which is devoted to self-affliction: painful, ignoble, unprofitable. Avoiding both of these extremes, the middle way realized by the Tathagata — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"And what is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding? Precisely this Noble Eightfold Path: right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. This is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"Now this, monks, is the noble truth of stress:[1] Birth is stressful, aging is stressful, death is stressful; sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, & despair are stressful; association with the unbeloved is stressful, separation from the loved is stressful, not getting what is wanted is stressful. In short, the five clinging-aggregates are stressful.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the origination of stress: the craving that makes for further becoming — accompanied by passion & delight, relishing now here & now there — i.e., craving for sensual pleasure, craving for becoming, craving for non-becoming.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the cessation of stress: the remainderless fading & cessation, renunciation, relinquishment, release, & letting go of that very craving.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the way of practice leading to the cessation of stress: precisely this Noble Eightfold Path — right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration."
(SN 56.11)
-"The Challenges of Life"
-as dharma students, we develop meditation and the skills of mindfulness so that can awaken. in the process of awakening, we learn to meet life on life's terms. we learn to meet the difficulties and challenges of life. in doing so, we're not simply seeking to endure the challenges of life. we're seeking to learn. this is a crucial attitude for the dharma student to develop. to learn to see the challenges of life as places for learning, as opportunities, as doorways. typically, we run from the difficulties in life. as dharma students we meet difficulty with equanimity, calmness, and a willingness to learn. meditation is difficult; we accept the challenge of meditation. life is difficult; we accept the challenges it presents. we seek, as dharma students, to challenge ourselves. it is only when we're able to skillfully meet the challenges of life, head-on, that we're able to know the joy in life. dharma practice is about joy, true happiness, and being ourselves. the message of the path is a message of joy, brightness, true happiness. by meeting the challenges of life, we know the happiness that the path offers.
-some things to to remember as we learn to meet "the challenges of life"...
1-in following the path, we develop in qualities that enable us to awaken.....
-we cultivate good health....
-we take good care of the body....
-we cultivate....
-health....
-strength....
-ease....
-inner well being ... pleasure ... refreshment....
-the states of jhana -the Buddha's concentration - are states of 'good health'....
-ease/refreshment....
-inner pleasure....
-this 'good health' is conducive to awakening....
-awakening to the here & now....
-in the process of awakening we're asked to....
-meet life on life's terms....
-meet the challenges of life....
2- as dharma students we come to see the challenges of life as an opportunities....
-in meeting the challenges of life....
-we cultivate equanimity ... acceptance....
-and we learn to see these difficulties as places of learning....
-typically, we engender aversion/disliking when there is difficulty....
-as dharma students we cultivate a more skillful attitude, in the face of difficulty & challenge....
-we make it a learning experience....
-we understand that by skillfully meeting the challenges of life, we find our way through to true happiness....
3-we choose, as dharma students, to take on that which is difficult....
-meditation, if practiced accordingly, is difficult....
-in meditation, we're asked to confront the truth of our experience ... we're asked to meet ourselves....
-in dharma practice, following the Buddha's path, we're asked to meet dukkha/suffering....
-we practice in accord with the 1st noble truth; we seek to comprehend dukkha....
-it is through the comprehension of dukkha, that we come to know the heart ... joy ... happiness of heart....
-we learn, as dharma students, to be fully present and aware, when confronted with difficulty....
-the difficulty of illness/aging/death/separation....
-the difficulty that is inherent in living in the conditioned realm....
-the difficulty of body & mind....
4-as dharma students, we should seek to do things that are difficult....
-the tendency, for most beings, is to choose that which is comfortable....
-to go along with the stream....
-it behooves us, as dharma students, to take on challenges....
-everyday presents us with the opportunity to take on challenges....
-blatant & subtle.....
5- when we are able meet the challenges of life, we are able to know that joy in life....
-our tendency is to run from life, from reality....
-but when we run from life, we run from the joy in life....
-the path of the dharma is a path of joy ... true happiness....
-as we learn to meet life, we come to understand the joy that is innate to life....
-the joy in the heart....
-the happiness of heart....
-the practice is just this: to know this joy.....
-reading.....
-"At the Door of the Cage" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
Ven. Gavampati: Face to face with the Blessed One did I hear this, face to face did I learn it: whoever sees stress also sees the origination of stress, the cessation of stress, & the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress.
Whoever sees the origination of stress also sees stress, the cessation of stress, & the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress.
Whoever sees the cessation of stress also sees stress, the origination of stress, & the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress.
Whoever sees the path of practice leading to the cessation of stress also sees stress, the origination of stress, & the cessation of stress.
(SN 56.20)
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying at Varanasi in the Game Refuge at Isipatana. There he addressed the group of five monks:
"There are these two extremes that are not to be indulged in by one who has gone forth. Which two? That which is devoted to sensual pleasure with reference to sensual objects: base, vulgar, common, ignoble, unprofitable; and that which is devoted to self-affliction: painful, ignoble, unprofitable. Avoiding both of these extremes, the middle way realized by the Tathagata — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"And what is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding? Precisely this Noble Eightfold Path: right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. This is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"Now this, monks, is the noble truth of stress:[1] Birth is stressful, aging is stressful, death is stressful; sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, & despair are stressful; association with the unbeloved is stressful, separation from the loved is stressful, not getting what is wanted is stressful. In short, the five clinging-aggregates are stressful.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the origination of stress: the craving that makes for further becoming — accompanied by passion & delight, relishing now here & now there — i.e., craving for sensual pleasure, craving for becoming, craving for non-becoming.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the cessation of stress: the remainderless fading & cessation, renunciation, relinquishment, release, & letting go of that very craving.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the way of practice leading to the cessation of stress: precisely this Noble Eightfold Path — right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration."
(SN 56.11)
February 15
-"Physiology, Psychology & Spirituality"
-in dharma practice, we could say, the elemental components are physiology, psychology & spirituality. we develop each of these elements of the practice. and each element supports and strengthens the others. in attending to the element of physiology we take good care of the body. we cultivate a state of good health. jhana is a state of good health. this state of good health, as the Buddha discovered, is essential to fulfilling our human potential. in attending to our psychology, we cultivate the health of the mind. a mind that is free from afflicted thinking and grasping is in a state in which we can know a greater happiness; the happiness of heart. in developing in spirituality, we're seeking to know that which transcends the ways of the world. that which transcends, in fact, body & mind. the heart. the timeless. the deathless. the dharma inside.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the elements of "physiology, psychology & spirituality"...
1-physiology.....
-in dharma practice, we cultivate good physical health....
-we take good care of the body....
-we cultivate....
-health....
-strength....
-ease....
-inner well being ... pleasure ... refreshment....
-when the body is in good health we function at a higher level....
-the neuroscientist Antonio Damasio refers to this "most favorable state" as homeostasis...
-it is a state at which we are able to flourish....
-as the Buddha realized it is the state most conducive to awakening....
-factors that support good health....
-staying fit.....
-nutrition...
-sleep....
-the states of jhana -the Buddha's concentration - are states of 'good health'....
-ease/refreshment....
-inner pleasure....
-meditation practice, the cultivation of jhana qualities, supports good health and healing....
-for this reason, we should practice meditation if we are ill ... as long as we're not 'too ill'....
2- psychology....
-in dharma practice, we cultivate good mental/emotional health....
-the cultivation of jhana qualiites, including ease/inner pleasure, conduces to good mental health....
-we gradually become less inclined to craving external sense pleasure ... to grasping after the things of the world....
-we are in a position to understand the mind, to comprehend dukkha (suffering)....
-all dukkha (suffering/affliction) is rooted in craving....
-wanting....
-not wanting....
-in our practice, we learn to....
-see our tendencies for craving....
-craving ... leads to the 'effluents' ... our narratives, thinking....
-in our practice, essential to our mental health, we learn to be heedful of our thinking....
-seeing thinking....
-questioning thinking....
-asking, 'is it useful?' is a basic foundational question for this discernment....
-in our practice, we learn to bring awareness to our grasping to certain mental states.....
-ABC....
-we bring awareness to these states....
-we maintain space, ease, centered in the breath...
-we cultivate compassion....
3-spirituality....
-in dharma practice, we cultivate that which transcends the conditioned realm: the heart, the dhamma....
-we lessen our preoccupation with the ways of the world....
-looking for happiness in...
-external sense pleasure....
-gain/material things...
-status/praise....
-the ways of the culture ... conforming to the ways of the culture....
-we incline to knowing that which is beyond the ways of the world....
-that which is timeless...
-that which is deathless....
-we find this timeless quality -the dhamma - inside us....
-in the heart....
-the knowing quality/innate wisdom....
-love....
-joy....
-the path leads to the heart ... the dhamma inside....
-we seek to live from the heart....
-we seek, in living from the heart, to know true happiness...
-reading.....
-here is a Bibliography of books that you may find useful in understanding the elements of "Physiology, Psychology & Spirituality"....
-Descartes' Error (Antonio Damasio)
-The Strange Order of Things (Antonio Damasio)
-Beyond the Pleasure Principle (Sigmund Freud)
-Civilization and Its Discontents (Sigmund Freud)
-Tristes Tropiques (Claude Levi-Strauss)
-"The Most Favorable State" (from Skillful Pleasure)
-"Physiology, Psychology & Spirituality"
-in dharma practice, we could say, the elemental components are physiology, psychology & spirituality. we develop each of these elements of the practice. and each element supports and strengthens the others. in attending to the element of physiology we take good care of the body. we cultivate a state of good health. jhana is a state of good health. this state of good health, as the Buddha discovered, is essential to fulfilling our human potential. in attending to our psychology, we cultivate the health of the mind. a mind that is free from afflicted thinking and grasping is in a state in which we can know a greater happiness; the happiness of heart. in developing in spirituality, we're seeking to know that which transcends the ways of the world. that which transcends, in fact, body & mind. the heart. the timeless. the deathless. the dharma inside.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop the elements of "physiology, psychology & spirituality"...
1-physiology.....
-in dharma practice, we cultivate good physical health....
-we take good care of the body....
-we cultivate....
-health....
-strength....
-ease....
-inner well being ... pleasure ... refreshment....
-when the body is in good health we function at a higher level....
-the neuroscientist Antonio Damasio refers to this "most favorable state" as homeostasis...
-it is a state at which we are able to flourish....
-as the Buddha realized it is the state most conducive to awakening....
-factors that support good health....
-staying fit.....
-nutrition...
-sleep....
-the states of jhana -the Buddha's concentration - are states of 'good health'....
-ease/refreshment....
-inner pleasure....
-meditation practice, the cultivation of jhana qualities, supports good health and healing....
-for this reason, we should practice meditation if we are ill ... as long as we're not 'too ill'....
2- psychology....
-in dharma practice, we cultivate good mental/emotional health....
-the cultivation of jhana qualiites, including ease/inner pleasure, conduces to good mental health....
-we gradually become less inclined to craving external sense pleasure ... to grasping after the things of the world....
-we are in a position to understand the mind, to comprehend dukkha (suffering)....
-all dukkha (suffering/affliction) is rooted in craving....
-wanting....
-not wanting....
-in our practice, we learn to....
-see our tendencies for craving....
-craving ... leads to the 'effluents' ... our narratives, thinking....
-in our practice, essential to our mental health, we learn to be heedful of our thinking....
-seeing thinking....
-questioning thinking....
-asking, 'is it useful?' is a basic foundational question for this discernment....
-in our practice, we learn to bring awareness to our grasping to certain mental states.....
-ABC....
-we bring awareness to these states....
-we maintain space, ease, centered in the breath...
-we cultivate compassion....
3-spirituality....
-in dharma practice, we cultivate that which transcends the conditioned realm: the heart, the dhamma....
-we lessen our preoccupation with the ways of the world....
-looking for happiness in...
-external sense pleasure....
-gain/material things...
-status/praise....
-the ways of the culture ... conforming to the ways of the culture....
-we incline to knowing that which is beyond the ways of the world....
-that which is timeless...
-that which is deathless....
-we find this timeless quality -the dhamma - inside us....
-in the heart....
-the knowing quality/innate wisdom....
-love....
-joy....
-the path leads to the heart ... the dhamma inside....
-we seek to live from the heart....
-we seek, in living from the heart, to know true happiness...
-reading.....
-here is a Bibliography of books that you may find useful in understanding the elements of "Physiology, Psychology & Spirituality"....
-Descartes' Error (Antonio Damasio)
-The Strange Order of Things (Antonio Damasio)
-Beyond the Pleasure Principle (Sigmund Freud)
-Civilization and Its Discontents (Sigmund Freud)
-Tristes Tropiques (Claude Levi-Strauss)
-"The Most Favorable State" (from Skillful Pleasure)
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“Then there is the case where a monk comes down with a slight illness. The thought occurs to him: ‘I have come down with a slight illness. Now, there’s the possibility that it could get worse. Why don’t I make an effort beforehand for the attaining of the as-yet-unattained, the reaching of the as-yet-unreached, the realization of the as-yet-unrealized?’ So he makes an effort for the attaining of the as-yet-unattained, the reaching of the as-yet-unreached, the realization of the as-yet-unrealized. This is the seventh ground for the arousal of energy.
“Then there is the case where a monk has recovered from his illness, not long after his recovery. The thought occurs to him: ‘I have recovered from my illness. It’s not long after my recovery. Now, there’s the possibility that the illness could come back. Why don’t I make an effort beforehand for the attaining of the as-yet-unattained, the reaching of the as-yet-unreached, the realization of the as-yet-unrealized?’ So he makes an effort for the attaining of the as-yet-unattained, the reaching of the as-yet-unreached, the realization of the as-yet-unrealized. This is the eighth ground for the arousal of energy."
(AN 8.95)
Near Sāvatthī. There the Blessed One said: “From an inconceivable beginning comes the wandering-on. A beginning point is not discernible, though beings hindered by ignorance and fettered by craving are transmigrating & wandering on. What do you think, monks? Which is greater, the tears you have shed while transmigrating & wandering this long, long time—crying & weeping from being joined with what is displeasing, being separated from what is pleasing—or the water in the four great oceans?”
“As we understand the Dhamma taught to us by the Blessed One, this is the greater: the tears we have shed while transmigrating & wandering this long, long time—crying & weeping from being joined with what is displeasing, being separated from what is pleasing—not the water in the four great oceans.”
“Excellent, monks. Excellent. It is excellent that you thus understand the Dhamma taught by me.
“This is the greater: the tears you have shed while transmigrating & wandering this long, long time—crying & weeping from being joined with what is displeasing, being separated from what is pleasing—not the water in the four great oceans."
(SN 15.3)
February 8
-"How to Ease Fixation"
-as dharma students, it is our task to stay in the body. to develop a felt sense of experience. to have an embodied awareness. much of the time, however, we spend 'in the head'. and it is a tendency of the mind to fixate, to become preoccupied with certain things, with certain stories. when we became fixated, there are certain things that we learn to do, to ease fixation. listening to the dharma. associated with admirable friends. changing our physical posture, something as simple as going for a walk. being in nature. ultimately, we ease fixation by having mindfulness of the body. seeing that what we're fixated on, our stories, are not all of our experience. when we're mindful of the body, we have a wider field of awareness. we recognize that our experience if made of various experiences. our pain. but also ease. and also the heart. wisdom. love. joy. this is the truth of our experience: reality. our path is one of knowing reality. and knowing that we have a choice, we can choose suffering or the end of suffering. it's up to us.
-some things to to remember as we learn "how to ease fixation"...
1-we learn as dharma students to develop embodied awareness.....
-we develop a felt sense of experience....
-we know things in the body....
-we know things, ultimately, in the heart....
-the path is a path of coming to the body....
-in support of coming to the body we....
-lessen our preoccupation with sense pleasure.....
-lessen our preoccupation with thinking....
-we practice meditation....
-mindfulness of the body.....
-we cultivate a pleasant abiding in the body....
2- it is a tendency of the mind to fixate....
-we fixate on certain things....
-we become preoccupied....
-caught in our stories.....
-it is found within....
-as dharma students, seeing that we are fixated....
-we seek to "ease fixation".....
3-we learn to ease fixation....
-in our efforts to ease fixation....
-we take refuge in dharma....
-we take refuge in admirable friends....
-we look to 'take a wider view' of experience....
-shifting our posture, changing the position of the body is very helpful....
-as, for instance, in going for a walk....
-shifting our posture, going for a walk, we begin to see that our pain, our stories, is not all of our experience....
-nature supports our ability to take a wider view of things....
-in nature, the mind brightens....
-it is important, in easing fixation, that we are able to keep the mind bright....
4-we seek to come out of the head, to the body, in easing fixation....
-when we are able to come out of the head, to the body...
-we see, clearly, that our experience is made of various experiences....
-there is our pain....
-there is also, at the same time, ease....
-there is also, at the same time, always, the heart....
-wisdom....
-love....
-joy.....
5-when we ease fixation, we remember the heart.....
-we see that there is that which is painful ... and that which is not painfu.....
-suffering & the end of suffering....
-it is important to see our pain ... to have a skillful relationship to it...
-equanimity, acceptance....
-non-acceptance (disliking) suffering ... exacerbates suffering ... reinforces fixation....
-seeing clearly, with acceptance, our pain ... we are able to see that it is not all our experience....
-there is ease...
-there is the heart....
-this is the truth of our experience ... the reality of our experience....
-seeing things clearly, seeing the reality of our experience, we are able to ease fixation....
-we are able to live from the heart.....
-reading.....
-"Song of the Open Road" (Walt Whitman)
I think heroic deeds were all conceiv’d in the open air, and all free poems also,
I think I could stop here myself and do miracles,
I think whatever I shall meet on the road I shall like, and whoever beholds me shall like me,
I think whoever I see must be happy.
*************
Allons! the road is before us!
It is safe—I have tried it—my own feet have tried it well—be not detain’d!
Let the paper remain on the desk unwritten, and the book on the shelf unopen’d!
Let the tools remain in the workshop! let the money remain unearn’d!
Let the school stand! mind not the cry of the teacher!
Let the preacher preach in his pulpit! let the lawyer plead in the court, and the judge expound the law.
Camerado, I give you my hand!
I give you my love more precious than money,
I give you myself before preaching or law;
Will you give me yourself? will you come travel with me?
Shall we stick by each other as long as we live?
(Walt Whitman)
I left the woods for as good a reason as I went there. Perhaps it seemed to me that I had several more lives to live, and could not spare any more time for that one. It is remarkable how easily and insensibly we fall into a particular route, and make a beaten track for ourselves. I had not lived there a week before my feet wore a path from my door to the pond–side; and though it is five or six years since I trod it, it is still quite distinct. It is true, I fear, that others may have fallen into it, and so helped to keep it open. The surface of the earth is soft and impressible by the feet of men; and so with the paths which the mind travels. How worn and dusty, then, must be the highways of the world, how deep the ruts of tradition and conformity! I did not wish to take a cabin passage, but rather to go before the mast and on the deck of the world, for there I could best see the moonlight amid the mountains. I do not wish to go below now.
I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; new, universal, and more liberal laws will begin to establish themselves around and within him; or the old laws be expanded, and interpreted in his favor in a more liberal sense, and he will live with the license of a higher order of beings. In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness. If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them.
(Thoreau)
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying at Varanasi in the Game Refuge at Isipatana. There he addressed the group of five monks:
"There are these two extremes that are not to be indulged in by one who has gone forth. Which two? That which is devoted to sensual pleasure with reference to sensual objects: base, vulgar, common, ignoble, unprofitable; and that which is devoted to self-affliction: painful, ignoble, unprofitable. Avoiding both of these extremes, the middle way realized by the Tathagata — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"And what is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding? Precisely this Noble Eightfold Path: right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. This is the middle way realized by the Tathagata that — producing vision, producing knowledge — leads to calm, to direct knowledge, to self-awakening, to Unbinding.
"Now this, monks, is the noble truth of stress: Birth is stressful, aging is stressful, death is stressful; sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, & despair are stressful; association with the unbeloved is stressful, separation from the loved is stressful, not getting what is wanted is stressful. In short, the five clinging-aggregates are stressful.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the origination of stress: the craving that makes for further becoming — accompanied by passion & delight, relishing now here & now there — i.e., craving for sensual pleasure, craving for becoming, craving for non-becoming.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the cessation of stress: the remainderless fading & cessation, renunciation, relinquishment, release, & letting go of that very craving.
"And this, monks, is the noble truth of the way of practice leading to the cessation of stress: precisely this Noble Eightfold Path — right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration."
(SN 56.11)
February 1
-"The Dharma is Inside"
-in dedicating the merit of our practice, we acknowledge and pay homage to the goodness of others. and we remember our own goodness. our goodness, our dharma, is timeless. it is everpresent. we find it within us. our tendency is to believe that we don't have this goodness, this dharma within. our tendency is to look outside ourselves, to depends on what it outside of us for our happiness. teachers do not give us the dharma. they teach us how to know it, by teaching us skills. they point us toward the dharma within us. dharma is inside. it is found in this body. in this very life. the practice of meditation is practice of mindfulness of the body. as we develop mindfulness of the body we become more and more in tune with the dharma within us. so, we should make an effort to practice, in the service of knowing the heart, our goodness, the dharma inside us.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in knowing that "the dharma is inside"...
1-dedication of merit is an important practice.....
-in Buddhist tradition, we a dear being passes on, we dedicate the merit of our practice to this being....
-we acknowledge their goodness ...
-we pay homage to their goodness....
-in doing so, in understanding goodness, the truth of dharma, we are moved to develop our own goodness ... to practice ... to make the most of our lives....
2- the dharma is found within....
-the dharma is timeless....
-it transcends birth & death....
-it is everpresent.....
-it is found within....
-inside us....
-in this body ... in this very life....
-it is always there, but it is obstructed by the burdens on the heart (dukkha).....
3-our tendency is to look outside ourselves....
-in our efforts to know happiness our tendency is to look outside of ourselves....
-in sense pleasure, gain, status, praise...
-in seeking goodness, truth, dharma, we tend to look outside of ourselves....
-we look to others to give it to us....
-we think it is something we don't have, that we have to somehow get....
-we look outside ourselves....
-to others....
-to teachers....
-to books, etc.....
4-we seek in our efforts to know truth, dharma to be a lamp unto ourselves.....
-as the Buddha taught, our ability to know happiness, truth, goodness depends not on what is outside of us ... it depends on us being a lamp (island, refuge) unto ourselves....
-we look within, to know the dharma....
-we shine the light of awareness on that which is within....
-wisdom....
-love....
-teachers point the way, to the dharma that is inside us.....
-by teaching us skills....
-how to practice in accord with the dharma....
-by encouraging us to practice....
-by reminding us of our goodness, the dharma inside us....
5-meditation enables us to know the dharma inside us.....
-we find the dharma inside us....
-in the body....
-the practice of meditation, as taught by the Buddha, brings us to the body....
-we develop in mindfulness of the body....
-the more we develop in mindfulness of the body, the closer we come to the heart ... to the dharma inside us....
-so, we should practice meditation ...
-we should make this noble effort....
-in the service of know the dharma inside us....
-reading.....
On one occasion the Blessed One was staying near Sāvatthī in Jeta’s Grove, Anāthapiṇḍika’s monastery. Now at that time Ven. Sāriputta was staying among the Māgadhans in Nālaka village—diseased, in pain, severely ill. Cunda the novice was his attendant. Then, because of that illness, Ven. Sāriputta totally unbound.
So Cunda the novice, taking Ven. Sāriputta’s bowl & robes, went to Ven. Ānanda in Jeta’s Grove, Anāthapiṇḍika’s monastery, near Sāvatthī, and on arrival, having bowed down to him, sat to one side. As he was sitting there he said to Ven. Ānanda: “Venerable sir, Ven. Sāriputta has totally unbound. Here are his bowl & robes.”
“Cunda, my friend, this news is reason for seeing the Blessed One. Come, let’s go to the Blessed One and report this matter to him.”
“Yes, venerable sir,” Cunda the novice responded to him.
So Ven. Ānanda & Cunda the novice went to the Blessed One and, on arrival, having bowed down to him, sat to one side. As they were sitting there, Ven. Ānanda said to the Blessed One, “Lord, just now Cunda the novice said to me, ‘Venerable sir, Ven. Sāriputta has totally unbound. Here are his bowl & robes.’ It was as if my body were drugged, I lost my bearings, things weren’t clear to me, on hearing that Ven. Sāriputta had totally unbound.”
“But, Ānanda, when he totally unbound, did Sāriputta take the aggregate of virtue along with him? Did he take the aggregate of concentration… discernment… release… the aggregate of knowledge & vision of release along with him?”
“No, lord, when he totally unbound, Ven. Sāriputta didn’t take the aggregate of virtue… concentration… discernment… release… the aggregate of knowledge & vision of release along with him. It’s just that he was my instructor & counselor, one who exhorted, urged, roused, & encouraged me. He was tireless in teaching the Dhamma, a help to his companions in the holy life. We miss the nourishment of his Dhamma, the wealth of his Dhamma, his help in the Dhamma.”
“But, Ānanda, haven’t I already taught you the state of growing different with regard to all things dear & appealing, the state of becoming separate, the state of becoming otherwise? What else is there to expect? It’s impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
“Just as if the largest limb were to fall off of a great tree composed of heartwood, standing firm; in the same way, Sāriputta has totally unbound from this great Saṅgha of monks composed of heartwood, standing firm. What else is there to expect? It’s impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
“Therefore, Ānanda, each of you should remain with your self as an island, your self as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. Remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. And how does a monk remain with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? How does he remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? There is the case where a monk remains focused on the body in & of itself—ardent, alert, & mindful—subduing greed & distress with reference to the world. He remains focused on feelings… mind… mental qualities in & of themselves—ardent, alert, & mindful—subduing greed & distress with reference to the world. This is how a monk remains with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge. For those who—now or after I am gone—remain with their self as an island, their self as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, they will be the foremost of the monks: those who are desirous of training.”
(SN 47.13)
Now on that occasion the twin Sal trees were in full bloom, even though it was not the time for flowering. They showered, strewed, & sprinkled on the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly coral-tree blossoms fell from the sky, showering, strewing, & sprinkling the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly sandalwood powder fell from the sky, showering, strewing, & sprinkling the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly music was playing in the sky, in homage to the Tathāgata. Heavenly songs were sung in the sky, in homage to the Tathāgata.
Then the Blessed One said to Ven. Ānanda, “Ānanda, the twin Sal trees are in full bloom, even though it’s not the flowering season. They shower, strew, & sprinkle on the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly coral-tree blossoms are falling from the sky.… Heavenly sandalwood powder is falling from the sky.… Heavenly music is playing in the sky.… Heavenly songs are sung in the sky, in homage to the Tathāgata. But it is not to this extent that a Tathāgata is worshipped, honored, respected, venerated, or paid homage to. Rather, the monk, nun, male lay follower, or female lay follower who keeps practicing the Dhamma in accordance with the Dhamma, who keeps practicing masterfully, who lives in accordance with the Dhamma: That is the person who worships, honors, respects, venerates, & pays homage to the Tathāgata with the highest homage. So you should train yourselves: ‘We will keep practicing the Dhamma in accordance with the Dhamma, we will keep practicing masterfully, we will live in accordance with the Dhamma.’ That’s how you should train yourselves.”
(DN 16)
Simply talking a lot
doesn’t maintain the dhamma.
Whoever
—although he’s heard next to nothing--
sees dhamma through his body,
is not heedless of dhamma:
he’s one who maintains the dhamma.
(Dhp 259)
Over there are the roots of trees; over there, empty dwellings. Practice jhāna, monks. Don’t be heedless. Don’t later fall into remorse. This is our message to you.”
(MN 19)
-"The Dharma is Inside"
-in dedicating the merit of our practice, we acknowledge and pay homage to the goodness of others. and we remember our own goodness. our goodness, our dharma, is timeless. it is everpresent. we find it within us. our tendency is to believe that we don't have this goodness, this dharma within. our tendency is to look outside ourselves, to depends on what it outside of us for our happiness. teachers do not give us the dharma. they teach us how to know it, by teaching us skills. they point us toward the dharma within us. dharma is inside. it is found in this body. in this very life. the practice of meditation is practice of mindfulness of the body. as we develop mindfulness of the body we become more and more in tune with the dharma within us. so, we should make an effort to practice, in the service of knowing the heart, our goodness, the dharma inside us.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in knowing that "the dharma is inside"...
1-dedication of merit is an important practice.....
-in Buddhist tradition, we a dear being passes on, we dedicate the merit of our practice to this being....
-we acknowledge their goodness ...
-we pay homage to their goodness....
-in doing so, in understanding goodness, the truth of dharma, we are moved to develop our own goodness ... to practice ... to make the most of our lives....
2- the dharma is found within....
-the dharma is timeless....
-it transcends birth & death....
-it is everpresent.....
-it is found within....
-inside us....
-in this body ... in this very life....
-it is always there, but it is obstructed by the burdens on the heart (dukkha).....
3-our tendency is to look outside ourselves....
-in our efforts to know happiness our tendency is to look outside of ourselves....
-in sense pleasure, gain, status, praise...
-in seeking goodness, truth, dharma, we tend to look outside of ourselves....
-we look to others to give it to us....
-we think it is something we don't have, that we have to somehow get....
-we look outside ourselves....
-to others....
-to teachers....
-to books, etc.....
4-we seek in our efforts to know truth, dharma to be a lamp unto ourselves.....
-as the Buddha taught, our ability to know happiness, truth, goodness depends not on what is outside of us ... it depends on us being a lamp (island, refuge) unto ourselves....
-we look within, to know the dharma....
-we shine the light of awareness on that which is within....
-wisdom....
-love....
-teachers point the way, to the dharma that is inside us.....
-by teaching us skills....
-how to practice in accord with the dharma....
-by encouraging us to practice....
-by reminding us of our goodness, the dharma inside us....
5-meditation enables us to know the dharma inside us.....
-we find the dharma inside us....
-in the body....
-the practice of meditation, as taught by the Buddha, brings us to the body....
-we develop in mindfulness of the body....
-the more we develop in mindfulness of the body, the closer we come to the heart ... to the dharma inside us....
-so, we should practice meditation ...
-we should make this noble effort....
-in the service of know the dharma inside us....
-reading.....
On one occasion the Blessed One was staying near Sāvatthī in Jeta’s Grove, Anāthapiṇḍika’s monastery. Now at that time Ven. Sāriputta was staying among the Māgadhans in Nālaka village—diseased, in pain, severely ill. Cunda the novice was his attendant. Then, because of that illness, Ven. Sāriputta totally unbound.
So Cunda the novice, taking Ven. Sāriputta’s bowl & robes, went to Ven. Ānanda in Jeta’s Grove, Anāthapiṇḍika’s monastery, near Sāvatthī, and on arrival, having bowed down to him, sat to one side. As he was sitting there he said to Ven. Ānanda: “Venerable sir, Ven. Sāriputta has totally unbound. Here are his bowl & robes.”
“Cunda, my friend, this news is reason for seeing the Blessed One. Come, let’s go to the Blessed One and report this matter to him.”
“Yes, venerable sir,” Cunda the novice responded to him.
So Ven. Ānanda & Cunda the novice went to the Blessed One and, on arrival, having bowed down to him, sat to one side. As they were sitting there, Ven. Ānanda said to the Blessed One, “Lord, just now Cunda the novice said to me, ‘Venerable sir, Ven. Sāriputta has totally unbound. Here are his bowl & robes.’ It was as if my body were drugged, I lost my bearings, things weren’t clear to me, on hearing that Ven. Sāriputta had totally unbound.”
“But, Ānanda, when he totally unbound, did Sāriputta take the aggregate of virtue along with him? Did he take the aggregate of concentration… discernment… release… the aggregate of knowledge & vision of release along with him?”
“No, lord, when he totally unbound, Ven. Sāriputta didn’t take the aggregate of virtue… concentration… discernment… release… the aggregate of knowledge & vision of release along with him. It’s just that he was my instructor & counselor, one who exhorted, urged, roused, & encouraged me. He was tireless in teaching the Dhamma, a help to his companions in the holy life. We miss the nourishment of his Dhamma, the wealth of his Dhamma, his help in the Dhamma.”
“But, Ānanda, haven’t I already taught you the state of growing different with regard to all things dear & appealing, the state of becoming separate, the state of becoming otherwise? What else is there to expect? It’s impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
“Just as if the largest limb were to fall off of a great tree composed of heartwood, standing firm; in the same way, Sāriputta has totally unbound from this great Saṅgha of monks composed of heartwood, standing firm. What else is there to expect? It’s impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating.
“Therefore, Ānanda, each of you should remain with your self as an island, your self as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. Remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. And how does a monk remain with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? How does he remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? There is the case where a monk remains focused on the body in & of itself—ardent, alert, & mindful—subduing greed & distress with reference to the world. He remains focused on feelings… mind… mental qualities in & of themselves—ardent, alert, & mindful—subduing greed & distress with reference to the world. This is how a monk remains with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge. For those who—now or after I am gone—remain with their self as an island, their self as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as their refuge, without anything else as a refuge, they will be the foremost of the monks: those who are desirous of training.”
(SN 47.13)
Now on that occasion the twin Sal trees were in full bloom, even though it was not the time for flowering. They showered, strewed, & sprinkled on the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly coral-tree blossoms fell from the sky, showering, strewing, & sprinkling the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly sandalwood powder fell from the sky, showering, strewing, & sprinkling the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly music was playing in the sky, in homage to the Tathāgata. Heavenly songs were sung in the sky, in homage to the Tathāgata.
Then the Blessed One said to Ven. Ānanda, “Ānanda, the twin Sal trees are in full bloom, even though it’s not the flowering season. They shower, strew, & sprinkle on the Tathāgata’s body in homage to him. Heavenly coral-tree blossoms are falling from the sky.… Heavenly sandalwood powder is falling from the sky.… Heavenly music is playing in the sky.… Heavenly songs are sung in the sky, in homage to the Tathāgata. But it is not to this extent that a Tathāgata is worshipped, honored, respected, venerated, or paid homage to. Rather, the monk, nun, male lay follower, or female lay follower who keeps practicing the Dhamma in accordance with the Dhamma, who keeps practicing masterfully, who lives in accordance with the Dhamma: That is the person who worships, honors, respects, venerates, & pays homage to the Tathāgata with the highest homage. So you should train yourselves: ‘We will keep practicing the Dhamma in accordance with the Dhamma, we will keep practicing masterfully, we will live in accordance with the Dhamma.’ That’s how you should train yourselves.”
(DN 16)
Simply talking a lot
doesn’t maintain the dhamma.
Whoever
—although he’s heard next to nothing--
sees dhamma through his body,
is not heedless of dhamma:
he’s one who maintains the dhamma.
(Dhp 259)
Over there are the roots of trees; over there, empty dwellings. Practice jhāna, monks. Don’t be heedless. Don’t later fall into remorse. This is our message to you.”
(MN 19)
January 25
-"Skillful Thinking: Affirmative Thinking"
"We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world."
-in following the Buddha's path, we're asked to develop skills. the mechanism by which we develop and practice skills is thinking. we fabricate certain thoughts, skillful thoughts, in an effort to develop the path. in order to be able to lay down skillful tracks in the mind, we need to abandon unskillful thoughts. for most of us, negative thinking is a primarily affliction. accordingly, we need to be heedful, ardent, and resolute in our efforts to abandon thoughts imbued with negativity. and, in turn, we need to be proactive in our efforts to cultivate thoughts that are affirmative. we learn to cultivate thoughts that are affirming in regard to the world, others & ourselves. thoughts of appreciation are elemental to this effort. all thinking that affirms is rooted in metta, the wish for true happiness. as we move forward in our efforts to cultivate skillful, affirmative thoughts we know a greater happiness. this, as the Buddha tells us, is something we can do.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in our ability to cultivate "affirmative thinking"...
1-in order to change, to know a greater happiness, we have to change our habits of thinking.....
-we learn, as dharma students, to develop skills that lead us to a greater happiness....
-the critical element, or tool, in developing skills is skillful fabrication....
-we proactively fabricate thinking that guides us in developing and practicing skills....
2- in developing skillful thinking, we seek to abandon negative thinking and cultivate affirmative thinking.....
-for most of us, pursuing thinking that's negative is a habitual tendency....
-culturally, there's a widespread propensity for negative thinking....
-in the media....
-in terms of other beings....
-as dharma students, we're heedful, seeing our propensity for thinking imbued with negativity....
-negative thoughts about the world, others, ourselves....
-thinking informed by....
-aversion....
-resentment....
-complaining....
-judging....
-it is particularly important to be heedful of thinking informed by resentment....
3-we seek, in cultivating skillful thinking, to proactively cultivate thinking that is affirmative.....
-some reflections we might make....
-do i pursue negative thinking....?
-do i cultivate affirmative thinking....?
-how can i cultivate affirmative thinking....?
-can i make a resolve to cultivate affirmative thinking....?
-in cultivating affirmative thinking....
-we cultivate affirmative thoughts about....
-the world....
-others....
-ourselves....
-we cultivate thoughts of appreciation....
-we cultivate thoughts of gratitude, recalling the blessing of....
1-our goodnes....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-effort to train the mind....
2-the goodness of others....
3-the goodness of the dharma....
4-the blessing of life....
-all affirmative thinking is rooted in metta.....
-we think about the wish for true happiness....
-we remember that there is a true happiness that is available to us....
4-we seek to cultivate affirmative thoughts on an ongoing basis.....
-in our training, it is essential that we make an effort to cultivate affirmative thoughts in all postures, as we go through our days....
-gradually as we do this, we bend the mind in the direction of affirmative thoughts....
-we change our karma....
-it is difficult at times....
-we are often swept away by our habitual tendencies of mind....
-but if we stay with it ... practice determination ... we can change the habits of mind.....
5-if we wish for a joyful life, we have to cultivate joyful thoughts......
-as we learn to cultivate joyful thinking ... we know a greater happiness....
-in and of themselves, joyful thoughts enable us to have a more joyful presence in this life....
-joyful thoughts bring ease to the body.....
-joyful thoughts bring ease to the mind....
-joyful thoughts bring us to the heart.....
-as our thoughts become more affirmative, joyful ... we incline to actions that in the service of the heart.....
-we know a greater happiness....
-reading.....
-"Taking Joy" (from The Skill of Living)
-"Skillful Thinking: Affirmative Thinking"
"We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world."
-in following the Buddha's path, we're asked to develop skills. the mechanism by which we develop and practice skills is thinking. we fabricate certain thoughts, skillful thoughts, in an effort to develop the path. in order to be able to lay down skillful tracks in the mind, we need to abandon unskillful thoughts. for most of us, negative thinking is a primarily affliction. accordingly, we need to be heedful, ardent, and resolute in our efforts to abandon thoughts imbued with negativity. and, in turn, we need to be proactive in our efforts to cultivate thoughts that are affirmative. we learn to cultivate thoughts that are affirming in regard to the world, others & ourselves. thoughts of appreciation are elemental to this effort. all thinking that affirms is rooted in metta, the wish for true happiness. as we move forward in our efforts to cultivate skillful, affirmative thoughts we know a greater happiness. this, as the Buddha tells us, is something we can do.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in our ability to cultivate "affirmative thinking"...
1-in order to change, to know a greater happiness, we have to change our habits of thinking.....
-we learn, as dharma students, to develop skills that lead us to a greater happiness....
-the critical element, or tool, in developing skills is skillful fabrication....
-we proactively fabricate thinking that guides us in developing and practicing skills....
2- in developing skillful thinking, we seek to abandon negative thinking and cultivate affirmative thinking.....
-for most of us, pursuing thinking that's negative is a habitual tendency....
-culturally, there's a widespread propensity for negative thinking....
-in the media....
-in terms of other beings....
-as dharma students, we're heedful, seeing our propensity for thinking imbued with negativity....
-negative thoughts about the world, others, ourselves....
-thinking informed by....
-aversion....
-resentment....
-complaining....
-judging....
-it is particularly important to be heedful of thinking informed by resentment....
3-we seek, in cultivating skillful thinking, to proactively cultivate thinking that is affirmative.....
-some reflections we might make....
-do i pursue negative thinking....?
-do i cultivate affirmative thinking....?
-how can i cultivate affirmative thinking....?
-can i make a resolve to cultivate affirmative thinking....?
-in cultivating affirmative thinking....
-we cultivate affirmative thoughts about....
-the world....
-others....
-ourselves....
-we cultivate thoughts of appreciation....
-we cultivate thoughts of gratitude, recalling the blessing of....
1-our goodnes....
-generosity....
-virtue....
-effort to train the mind....
2-the goodness of others....
3-the goodness of the dharma....
4-the blessing of life....
-all affirmative thinking is rooted in metta.....
-we think about the wish for true happiness....
-we remember that there is a true happiness that is available to us....
4-we seek to cultivate affirmative thoughts on an ongoing basis.....
-in our training, it is essential that we make an effort to cultivate affirmative thoughts in all postures, as we go through our days....
-gradually as we do this, we bend the mind in the direction of affirmative thoughts....
-we change our karma....
-it is difficult at times....
-we are often swept away by our habitual tendencies of mind....
-but if we stay with it ... practice determination ... we can change the habits of mind.....
5-if we wish for a joyful life, we have to cultivate joyful thoughts......
-as we learn to cultivate joyful thinking ... we know a greater happiness....
-in and of themselves, joyful thoughts enable us to have a more joyful presence in this life....
-joyful thoughts bring ease to the body.....
-joyful thoughts bring ease to the mind....
-joyful thoughts bring us to the heart.....
-as our thoughts become more affirmative, joyful ... we incline to actions that in the service of the heart.....
-we know a greater happiness....
-reading.....
-"Taking Joy" (from The Skill of Living)
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-"Mahanama Sutta" (AN 11.13)
[4] "Furthermore, there is the case where you recollect your own virtues: '[They are] untorn, unbroken, unspotted, unsplattered, liberating, praised by the wise, untarnished, conducive to concentration.' At any time when a disciple of the noble ones is recollecting virtue, his mind is not overcome with passion, not overcome with aversion, not overcome with delusion. His mind heads straight, based on virtue. And when the mind is headed straight, the disciple of the noble ones gains a sense of the goal, gains a sense of the Dhamma, gains joy connected with the Dhamma. In one who is joyful, rapture arises. In one who is rapturous, the body grows calm. One whose body is calmed experiences ease. In one at ease, the mind becomes concentrated.
"Of one who does this, Mahanama, it is said: 'Among those who are out of tune, the disciple of the noble ones dwells in tune; among those who are malicious, he dwells without malice; having attained the stream of Dhamma, he develops the recollection of virtue.'
[5] "Furthermore, there is the case where you recollect your own generosity: 'It is a gain, a great gain for me, that — among people overcome with the stain of possessiveness — I live at home, my awareness cleansed of the stain of possessiveness, freely generous, openhanded, delighting in being magnanimous, responsive to requests, delighting in the distribution of alms.' At any time when a disciple of the noble ones is recollecting generosity, his mind is not overcome with passion, not overcome with aversion, not overcome with delusion. His mind heads straight, based on generosity. And when the mind is headed straight, the disciple of the noble ones gains a sense of the goal, gains a sense of the Dhamma, gains joy connected with the Dhamma. In one who is joyful, rapture arises. In one who is rapturous, the body grows calm. One whose body is calmed experiences ease. In one at ease, the mind becomes concentrated.
"Of one who does this, Mahanama, it is said: 'Among those who are out of tune, the disciple of the noble ones dwells in tune; among those who are malicious, he dwells without malice; having attained the stream of Dhamma, he develops the recollection of generosity.'"
(AN 11.12)
We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world.
Speak or act with an impure mind
And trouble will follow you
As the wheel follows the ox that draws the cart.
We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world.
Speak or act with a pure mind
And happiness will follow you
As your shadow, unshakable.
"Look how he abused me and hurt me,
How he threw me down and robbed me."
Live with such thoughts and you live in hate.
"Look how he abused me and hurt me,
How he threw me down and robbed me."
Abandon such thoughts, and live in love.
In this world
Hate never yet dispelled hate.
Only love dispels hate.
This is the law,
Ancient and inexhaustible.
(Dhp 1)
For the new year. — I still live, I still think: I still have to live, for I still have to think. Sum, ergo cogito: cogito, ergo sum. Today everybody permits himself the expression of his wish and his dearest thought; hence I, too, shall say what it is that I wish from myself today, and what was the first thought to run across my heart this year — what thought shall be for me the reason, warranty, and sweetness of my life henceforth. I want to learn more and more to see as beautiful what is necessary in things; then I shall be one of those who make things beautiful. Amor fati: let that by my love henceforth! I do not want to wage war against what is ugly. I do not want to accuse; I do not even want to accuse those who accuse. Looking away shall be my only negation. And all in all and on the whole: some day I wish to be only a Yes-sayer.
(Nietzsche/from The Gay Science)
“Poetry is the gai science. The trait and test of the poet is that he builds, adds and affirms.”
(Emerson)
Work. Keep digging your well.
Don’t think about getting off from work.
Water is there somewhere.
Submit to a daily practice.
Your loyalty to that
Is a ring on the door.
Keep knocking, and the joy inside
Will eventually open a window
And look out to see who’s there.
(Rumi)
January 18
-"Skillful Thinking: Asking Questions"
"We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world."
-in order to know a greater happiness, we have to learn to abandon unskillful thinking and cultivate skillful thinking. the proactive effort toward cultivating skillful thinking will lead us to happiness of heart. as we make this effort to cultivate skillful thinking, we gradually incline the mind toward this sort of thinking. the Buddha has certain guidelines that we seek to follow in cultivating skillful thinking. it's important that we don't 'overthink'. doing so, tires the mind and brings about unskillful thinking. our default position for the mind is the breath. in all postures we use thought to direct the mind to the breath. we ask question in an effort to develop insight. it begins with the breath, by asking how the breath is. and asking how the body is. we develop insight by asking whether there is suffering. a good question for us to learn to ask is: how is the heart? asking this question, we look to see if the the heart is afflicted. and we can ask questions, such as 'is there that which is beyond birth & death,' to point us in the direction of the state that is free from suffering. by asking question in these ways we learn to free the heart of its burdens and know the happiness inside, the happiness of heart.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in our ability to practice "asking questions"...
1-we follow certain basic principle in cultivating skillful thinking.....
-as the Buddha explains in the sutta "Two Sorts of Thinking".....
-we cultivate skillful thinking ... but we are careful not to "over-fabricate"....
-we keep the thinking 'short & simple'....
-we fabricate skillfully ... and then put our mind on the breath, in the body....
-the breath, we could say, is the 'default' position for the mind....
-we keep the mind on the breath, in all postures, by using thought....
-this is 'directed thought".....
-we remind ourselves, in breath meditation, and in all postures, to keep the mind on the breath.....
-in the body....
-in the frame of reference.....
2- we ask questions in the service of developing insight.....
-the practice of insight begins in the Buddha's teaching with the breath....
-we 'evaluate' the breath....
-we ask questions, such as, 'how is the breath'.....
-'what is it like to breath in an easeful way'.....
-we ask questions in an effort to discern how the body is ... and how to develop an easeful abiding in the body....
-we ask questions, such as, 'how is the body'.....
-is there dis-ease in the body....?
-is there ease in the body....?
-where can i put my mind in an effort to cultivate and easeful abiding....?
3-we ask questions in an effort to understand suffering and the end of suffering.....
-in all postures, a good question to learn to ask is: 'how is the heart"
-is the heart afflicted....?
-is there dukkha....?
-in seeing dukkha, we learn to ask....
-am i in a narrative....?
-is it useful...?
-am i clinging....?
-am i involved in clinging to some form of desire/aversion....?
-am i clinging to an emotional/mind state....?
-how can I meet this clinging/dukkha in a skillful way....?
-what is it like when i get some space from the clinging...?
-what is it like when there is a lessening of clinging....?
4-we use skillful thinking, including questions, to recognize the characteristics of conditioned experience.....
-we reflect, as the Buddha teaches, on nature of conditioned experience....
-we reflect on the truth of illness/aging/death/separation....
-we reflect on the truth of impermanence....
-we reflect on the truth of not-self....
-we reflect on the truth of the unsatisfactory nature of conditioned experience....
5-asking questions, we incline ourselves to knowing the state which is not subject to birth and death......
-we learn to ask, is there that which is beyond birth & death....?
-is there that which is deathless....?
-is there that which is timeless....?
-by asking these sorts of questions, we incline the mind to knowing the happiness that does not die.....
-happiness of heart, the dharma....
-the happiness that is always there, in the heart....
-reading.....
-"The Path of Questions" (Thanissaro Bhikkhu)
"Abandon what is unskillful, monks. It is possible to abandon what is unskillful. If it were not possible to abandon what is unskillful, I would not say to you, 'Abandon what is unskillful.' But because it is possible to abandon what is unskillful, I say to you, 'Abandon what is unskillful.' If this abandoning of what is unskillful were conducive to harm and pain, I would not say to you, 'Abandon what is unskillful.' But because this abandoning of what is unskillful is conducive to benefit and pleasure, I say to you, 'Abandon what is unskillful.'
"Develop what is skillful, monks. It is possible to develop what is skillful. If it were not possible to develop what is skillful, I would not say to you, 'Develop what is skillful.' But because it is possible to develop what is skillful, I say to you, 'Develop what is skillful.' If this development of what is skillful were conducive to harm and pain, I would not say to you, 'Develop what is skillful.' But because this development of what is skillful is conducive to benefit and pleasure, I say to you, 'Develop what is skillful.'"
(AN 2.19)
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with renunciation arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with renunciation has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with non-ill will arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with non-ill will has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with harmlessness arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with harmlessness has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"Whatever a monk keeps pursuing with his thinking & pondering, that becomes the inclination of his awareness. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with renunciation, abandoning thinking imbued with sensuality, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with renunciation. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with non-ill will, abandoning thinking imbued with ill will, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with non-ill will. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with harmlessness, abandoning thinking imbued with harmfulness, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with harmlessness.
"Just as in the last month of the hot season, when all the crops have been gathered into the village, a cowherd would look after his cows: While resting under the shade of a tree or out in the open, he simply keeps himself mindful of 'those cows.' In the same way, I simply kept myself mindful of 'those mental qualities.'"
(MN 19)
Whatever an enemy might do
to an enemy,
or a foe to a foe,
the ill-directed mind
can do to you
even worse.
Whatever a mother, father
or other kinsman
might do for you,
the well-directed mind
can do for you
even better.
(Dhp 3)
January 11
-"Skillful Thinking: Cultivating Skillful Thinking"
"We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world."
-in his teaching on being heedful of thinking, "Two Sorts of Thinking," the Buddha describes the process for abandoning unskillful thinking. he also describes the process for cultivating skillful thinking. as dharma students we need to attend to both aspects of the practice. it is challenging to cultivate skillful thinking, to think in a new way because our patterns of thought are deeply habitual. but we can change. we have to make a proactive effort to cultivate skillful thinking. being centered in all postures, practicing natural meditation, is essential. we learn to ask how we can cultivate skillful thinking. we make an effort, in doing so, to incline the mind to skillful thinking. difficult is, as always, an entry point. when there is difficulty, we learn to abandon unskillful ways to relating, unskillful ways of thinking. and in turn we learn to ask, what is a skillful way to think about this. in doing this, we learn, gradually, to rely on the heart to guide us. we rely on our innate wisdom. it is of course a process of trial and effort. but it we make the effort we'll learn to cultivate thoughts that will lead us to the happiness of heart.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in our ability to practice "cultivating skillful thinking"...
1-skillful thinking leads us to happiness of heart.....
-as the Buddha describes in the sutta "Two Sorts of Thinking".....
-we should learn to abandon unskillful thinking...
-we should cultivate skillful thinking....
-it is important to abandon unskillful thinking ... but it is not enough.....
-if we are going to know a greater happiness, we have to proactively cultivate skillful thinking....
2- it is difficult develop skillful thinking because our patterns of thinking are deeply habitual.....
-the patterns of mind are habitual ... there are "grooves" in the mind that the our thinking goes quickly into....
-the mind bends in these unskillful directions....
-we must learn skills to abandon unskillful thinking....
-natural meditation is essential....
-when there is an easeful abiding in all postures we're less likely to follow habitual patterns....
-we're more able to have space ... and cultivate skillful thinking....
3-in all postures we seek to develop skillful thinking.....
-we are alert and resolute....
-we are resolved to cultivate skillful thinking....
-we make an effort, in all postures, to ask....
-right now, how can I think in a skillful way....?
-how can I think in a way that is for my long term welfare....?
-how can I think in a way that will lead to a greater happiness....?
4-difficult is often an entry point for the developing skillful thinking.....
-when there is difficulty.....
-we see the tendency to relate unskillfully ... to pursue unskillful thinking....?
-we seek to abandon unskillful thinking....
-we make a proactive effort to cultivate skillful thinking.....
-thinking informed by compassion is a 'default setting' here ... we seek to cultivate thoughts of compassion, in view of our difficulty....
-and, importantly, in the effort to engender skillful thinking, we might ask questions.....
-such as.....
-" what is a skillful way to think about this situation...?"
5-in cultivating thinking, asking questions, we learn to tune ourselves to the dhamma......
-we learn to turn to our innate wisdom....
-we create a 'script' based on our innate wisdom ... the heart ... the dhamma inside....
-this is always a process of trial and error, this is how we learn to tune to our innate wisdom....
-we make an effort to cultivate skillful thinking....
-we look to see whether we are in tune with the heart....
-we look at the body....
-we look at the heart.....
-we develop sensitivity to the heart, to what comprises skillful thinking....
-in this way we learn to guide ourselves through our days....
-we learn to live with wisdom and love.....
-we move closer to the heart....
-reading.....
"Two Sorts of Thinking"
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying at Savatthi, in Jeta's Grove, Anathapindika's monastery. There he addressed the monks: "Monks!"
"Yes, lord," the monks replied.
The Blessed One said, "Monks, before my self-awakening, when I was still just an unawakened Bodhisatta, the thought occurred to me: 'Why don't I keep dividing my thinking into two sorts?' So I made thinking imbued with sensuality, thinking imbued with ill will, & thinking imbued with harmfulness one sort, and thinking imbued with renunciation, thinking imbued with non-ill will, & thinking imbued with harmlessness another sort.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with sensuality arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with sensuality has arisen in me; and that leads to my own affliction or to the affliction of others or to the affliction of both. It obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding.'
"As I noticed that it leads to my own affliction, it subsided. As I noticed that it leads to the affliction of others... to the affliction of both... it obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding, it subsided. Whenever thinking imbued with sensuality had arisen, I simply abandoned it, dispelled it, wiped it out of existence.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with ill will arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with ill will has arisen in me; and that leads to my own affliction or to the affliction of others or to the affliction of both. It obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding.'
"As I noticed that it leads to my own affliction, it subsided. As I noticed that it leads to the affliction of others... to the affliction of both... it obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding, it subsided. Whenever thinking imbued with ill will had arisen, I simply abandoned it, dispelled it, wiped it out of existence.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with harmfulness arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with harmfulness has arisen in me; and that leads to my own affliction or to the affliction of others or to the affliction of both. It obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding.'
"As I noticed that it leads to my own affliction, it subsided. As I noticed that it leads to the affliction of others... to the affliction of both... it obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding, it subsided. Whenever thinking imbued with harmfulness had arisen, I simply abandoned it, dispelled it, wiped it out of existence.
"Whatever a monk keeps pursuing with his thinking & pondering, that becomes the inclination of his awareness. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with sensuality, abandoning thinking imbued with renunciation, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with sensuality. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with ill will, abandoning thinking imbued with non-ill will, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with ill will. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with harmfulness, abandoning thinking imbued with harmlessness, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with harmfulness.
"Just as in the last month of the Rains, in the autumn season when the crops are ripening, a cowherd would look after his cows: He would tap & poke & check & curb them with a stick on this side & that. Why is that? Because he foresees flogging or imprisonment or a fine or public censure arising from that [if he let his cows wander into the crops]. In the same way I foresaw in unskillful qualities drawbacks, degradation, & defilement, and I foresaw in skillful qualities rewards related to renunciation & promoting cleansing.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with renunciation arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with renunciation has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with non-ill will arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with non-ill will has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with harmlessness arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with harmlessness has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"Whatever a monk keeps pursuing with his thinking & pondering, that becomes the inclination of his awareness. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with renunciation, abandoning thinking imbued with sensuality, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with renunciation. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with non-ill will, abandoning thinking imbued with ill will, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with non-ill will. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with harmlessness, abandoning thinking imbued with harmfulness, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with harmlessness.
"Just as in the last month of the hot season, when all the crops have been gathered into the village, a cowherd would look after his cows: While resting under the shade of a tree or out in the open, he simply keeps himself mindful of 'those cows.' In the same way, I simply kept myself mindful of 'those mental qualities.'
"Unflagging persistence was aroused in me, and unmuddled mindfulness established. My body was calm & unaroused, my mind concentrated & single. Quite withdrawn from sensuality, withdrawn from unskillful mental qualities, I entered & remained in the first jhana: rapture & pleasure born from withdrawal, accompanied by directed thought & evaluation. With the stilling of directed thoughts & evaluations, I entered & remained in the second jhana: rapture & pleasure born of composure, unification of awareness free from directed thought & evaluation — internal assurance. With the fading of rapture I remained in equanimity, mindful & alert, and physically sensitive of pleasure. I entered & remained in the third jhana, of which the Noble Ones declare, 'Equanimous & mindful, he has a pleasant abiding.' With the abandoning of pleasure & pain — as with the earlier disappearance of elation & distress — I entered & remained in the fourth jhana: purity of equanimity & mindfulness, neither pleasure nor pain.
"When the mind was thus concentrated, purified, bright, unblemished, rid of defilement, pliant, malleable, steady, & attained to imperturbability, I directed it to the knowledge of recollecting my past lives. I recollected my manifold past lives, i.e., one birth, two... five, ten... fifty, a hundred, a thousand, a hundred thousand, many eons of cosmic contraction, many eons of cosmic expansion, many eons of cosmic contraction & expansion: 'There I had such a name, belonged to such a clan, had such an appearance. Such was my food, such my experience of pleasure & pain, such the end of my life. Passing away from that state, I re-arose there. There too I had such a name, belonged to such a clan, had such an appearance. Such was my food, such my experience of pleasure & pain, such the end of my life. Passing away from that state, I re-arose here.' Thus I remembered my manifold past lives in their modes & details.
"This was the first knowledge I attained in the first watch of the night. Ignorance was destroyed; knowledge arose; darkness was destroyed; light arose — as happens in one who is heedful, ardent, & resolute.
"When the mind was thus concentrated, purified, bright, unblemished, rid of defilement, pliant, malleable, steady, & attained to imperturbability, I directed it to the knowledge of the passing away & reappearance of beings. I saw — by means of the divine eye, purified & surpassing the human — beings passing away & re-appearing, and I discerned how they are inferior & superior, beautiful & ugly, fortunate & unfortunate in accordance with their kamma: 'These beings — who were endowed with bad conduct of body, speech & mind, who reviled the Noble Ones, held wrong views and undertook actions under the influence of wrong views — with the break-up of the body, after death, have re-appeared in the plane of deprivation, the bad destination, the lower realms, in hell. But these beings — who were endowed with good conduct of body, speech, & mind, who did not revile the Noble Ones, who held right views and undertook actions under the influence of right views — with the break-up of the body, after death, have re-appeared in the good destinations, in the heavenly world.' Thus — by means of the divine eye, purified & surpassing the human — I saw beings passing away & re-appearing, and I discerned how they are inferior & superior, beautiful & ugly, fortunate & unfortunate in accordance with their kamma.
"This was the second knowledge I attained in the second watch of the night. Ignorance was destroyed; knowledge arose; darkness was destroyed; light arose — as happens in one who is heedful, ardent, & resolute.
"When the mind was thus concentrated, purified, bright, unblemished, rid of defilement, pliant, malleable, steady, & attained to imperturbability, I directed it to the knowledge of the ending of the mental fermentations. I discerned, as it had come to be, that 'This is stress... This is the origination of stress... This is the cessation of stress... This is the way leading to the cessation of stress... These are fermentations... This is the origination of fermentations... This is the cessation of fermentations... This is the way leading to the cessation of fermentations.' My heart, thus knowing, thus seeing, was released from the fermentation of sensuality, released from the fermentation of becoming, released from the fermentation of ignorance. With release, there was the knowledge, 'Released.' I discerned that 'Birth is ended, the holy life fulfilled, the task done. There is nothing further for this world.'
"This was the third knowledge I attained in the third watch of the night. Ignorance was destroyed; knowledge arose; darkness was destroyed; light arose — as happens in one who is heedful, ardent, & resolute.
"Suppose, monks, that in a forested wilderness there were a large low-lying marsh, in dependence on which there lived a large herd of deer; and a certain man were to appear, not desiring their benefit, not desiring their welfare, not desiring their rest from bondage. He would close off the safe, restful path that led to their rapture, and would open up a false path, set out a male decoy, place a female decoy, and thus the large herd of deer would eventually fall into ruin, disaster, & decimation. Then suppose that a certain man were to appear to that same large herd of deer, desiring their benefit, desiring their welfare, desiring their rest from bondage. He would open up the safe, restful path that led to their rapture, would close off the false path, take away the male decoy, destroy the female decoy, and thus the large herd of deer would eventually come into growth, increase, & abundance.
"I have given this simile in order to convey a meaning. The meaning is this: 'The large, low-lying marsh' stands for sensuality. 'The large herd of deer' stands for beings. 'The man not desiring their benefit, not desiring their welfare, not desiring their rest from bondage' stands for Mara, the Evil One. 'The false path' stands for the eightfold wrong path, i.e., wrong view, wrong resolve, wrong speech, wrong action, wrong livelihood, wrong effort, wrong mindfulness, & wrong concentration. 'The male decoy' stands for passion & delight. 'The female decoy' stands for ignorance. 'The man desiring their benefit, desiring their welfare, desiring their rest from bondage' stands for the Tathagata, the Worthy One, the Rightly Self-awakened One. 'The safe, restful path that led to their rapture' stands for the noble eightfold path, i.e., right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, & right concentration.
"So, monks, I have opened up the safe, restful path, closed off the false path, removed the male decoy, destroyed the female. Whatever a teacher should do — seeking the welfare of his disciples, out of sympathy for them — that have I done for you. Over there are the roots of trees; over there, empty dwellings. Practice jhana, monks. Don't be heedless. Don't later fall into regret. This is our message to you."
That is what the Blessed One said. Gratified, the monks delighted in the Blessed One's words.
(MN 19)
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-"Skillful Thinking: Cultivating Skillful Thinking"
"We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world."
-in his teaching on being heedful of thinking, "Two Sorts of Thinking," the Buddha describes the process for abandoning unskillful thinking. he also describes the process for cultivating skillful thinking. as dharma students we need to attend to both aspects of the practice. it is challenging to cultivate skillful thinking, to think in a new way because our patterns of thought are deeply habitual. but we can change. we have to make a proactive effort to cultivate skillful thinking. being centered in all postures, practicing natural meditation, is essential. we learn to ask how we can cultivate skillful thinking. we make an effort, in doing so, to incline the mind to skillful thinking. difficult is, as always, an entry point. when there is difficulty, we learn to abandon unskillful ways to relating, unskillful ways of thinking. and in turn we learn to ask, what is a skillful way to think about this. in doing this, we learn, gradually, to rely on the heart to guide us. we rely on our innate wisdom. it is of course a process of trial and effort. but it we make the effort we'll learn to cultivate thoughts that will lead us to the happiness of heart.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in our ability to practice "cultivating skillful thinking"...
1-skillful thinking leads us to happiness of heart.....
-as the Buddha describes in the sutta "Two Sorts of Thinking".....
-we should learn to abandon unskillful thinking...
-we should cultivate skillful thinking....
-it is important to abandon unskillful thinking ... but it is not enough.....
-if we are going to know a greater happiness, we have to proactively cultivate skillful thinking....
2- it is difficult develop skillful thinking because our patterns of thinking are deeply habitual.....
-the patterns of mind are habitual ... there are "grooves" in the mind that the our thinking goes quickly into....
-the mind bends in these unskillful directions....
-we must learn skills to abandon unskillful thinking....
-natural meditation is essential....
-when there is an easeful abiding in all postures we're less likely to follow habitual patterns....
-we're more able to have space ... and cultivate skillful thinking....
3-in all postures we seek to develop skillful thinking.....
-we are alert and resolute....
-we are resolved to cultivate skillful thinking....
-we make an effort, in all postures, to ask....
-right now, how can I think in a skillful way....?
-how can I think in a way that is for my long term welfare....?
-how can I think in a way that will lead to a greater happiness....?
4-difficult is often an entry point for the developing skillful thinking.....
-when there is difficulty.....
-we see the tendency to relate unskillfully ... to pursue unskillful thinking....?
-we seek to abandon unskillful thinking....
-we make a proactive effort to cultivate skillful thinking.....
-thinking informed by compassion is a 'default setting' here ... we seek to cultivate thoughts of compassion, in view of our difficulty....
-and, importantly, in the effort to engender skillful thinking, we might ask questions.....
-such as.....
-" what is a skillful way to think about this situation...?"
5-in cultivating thinking, asking questions, we learn to tune ourselves to the dhamma......
-we learn to turn to our innate wisdom....
-we create a 'script' based on our innate wisdom ... the heart ... the dhamma inside....
-this is always a process of trial and error, this is how we learn to tune to our innate wisdom....
-we make an effort to cultivate skillful thinking....
-we look to see whether we are in tune with the heart....
-we look at the body....
-we look at the heart.....
-we develop sensitivity to the heart, to what comprises skillful thinking....
-in this way we learn to guide ourselves through our days....
-we learn to live with wisdom and love.....
-we move closer to the heart....
-reading.....
"Two Sorts of Thinking"
I have heard that on one occasion the Blessed One was staying at Savatthi, in Jeta's Grove, Anathapindika's monastery. There he addressed the monks: "Monks!"
"Yes, lord," the monks replied.
The Blessed One said, "Monks, before my self-awakening, when I was still just an unawakened Bodhisatta, the thought occurred to me: 'Why don't I keep dividing my thinking into two sorts?' So I made thinking imbued with sensuality, thinking imbued with ill will, & thinking imbued with harmfulness one sort, and thinking imbued with renunciation, thinking imbued with non-ill will, & thinking imbued with harmlessness another sort.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with sensuality arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with sensuality has arisen in me; and that leads to my own affliction or to the affliction of others or to the affliction of both. It obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding.'
"As I noticed that it leads to my own affliction, it subsided. As I noticed that it leads to the affliction of others... to the affliction of both... it obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding, it subsided. Whenever thinking imbued with sensuality had arisen, I simply abandoned it, dispelled it, wiped it out of existence.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with ill will arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with ill will has arisen in me; and that leads to my own affliction or to the affliction of others or to the affliction of both. It obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding.'
"As I noticed that it leads to my own affliction, it subsided. As I noticed that it leads to the affliction of others... to the affliction of both... it obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding, it subsided. Whenever thinking imbued with ill will had arisen, I simply abandoned it, dispelled it, wiped it out of existence.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with harmfulness arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with harmfulness has arisen in me; and that leads to my own affliction or to the affliction of others or to the affliction of both. It obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding.'
"As I noticed that it leads to my own affliction, it subsided. As I noticed that it leads to the affliction of others... to the affliction of both... it obstructs discernment, promotes vexation, & does not lead to Unbinding, it subsided. Whenever thinking imbued with harmfulness had arisen, I simply abandoned it, dispelled it, wiped it out of existence.
"Whatever a monk keeps pursuing with his thinking & pondering, that becomes the inclination of his awareness. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with sensuality, abandoning thinking imbued with renunciation, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with sensuality. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with ill will, abandoning thinking imbued with non-ill will, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with ill will. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with harmfulness, abandoning thinking imbued with harmlessness, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with harmfulness.
"Just as in the last month of the Rains, in the autumn season when the crops are ripening, a cowherd would look after his cows: He would tap & poke & check & curb them with a stick on this side & that. Why is that? Because he foresees flogging or imprisonment or a fine or public censure arising from that [if he let his cows wander into the crops]. In the same way I foresaw in unskillful qualities drawbacks, degradation, & defilement, and I foresaw in skillful qualities rewards related to renunciation & promoting cleansing.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with renunciation arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with renunciation has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with non-ill will arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with non-ill will has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with harmlessness arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with harmlessness has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"Whatever a monk keeps pursuing with his thinking & pondering, that becomes the inclination of his awareness. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with renunciation, abandoning thinking imbued with sensuality, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with renunciation. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with non-ill will, abandoning thinking imbued with ill will, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with non-ill will. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with harmlessness, abandoning thinking imbued with harmfulness, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with harmlessness.
"Just as in the last month of the hot season, when all the crops have been gathered into the village, a cowherd would look after his cows: While resting under the shade of a tree or out in the open, he simply keeps himself mindful of 'those cows.' In the same way, I simply kept myself mindful of 'those mental qualities.'
"Unflagging persistence was aroused in me, and unmuddled mindfulness established. My body was calm & unaroused, my mind concentrated & single. Quite withdrawn from sensuality, withdrawn from unskillful mental qualities, I entered & remained in the first jhana: rapture & pleasure born from withdrawal, accompanied by directed thought & evaluation. With the stilling of directed thoughts & evaluations, I entered & remained in the second jhana: rapture & pleasure born of composure, unification of awareness free from directed thought & evaluation — internal assurance. With the fading of rapture I remained in equanimity, mindful & alert, and physically sensitive of pleasure. I entered & remained in the third jhana, of which the Noble Ones declare, 'Equanimous & mindful, he has a pleasant abiding.' With the abandoning of pleasure & pain — as with the earlier disappearance of elation & distress — I entered & remained in the fourth jhana: purity of equanimity & mindfulness, neither pleasure nor pain.
"When the mind was thus concentrated, purified, bright, unblemished, rid of defilement, pliant, malleable, steady, & attained to imperturbability, I directed it to the knowledge of recollecting my past lives. I recollected my manifold past lives, i.e., one birth, two... five, ten... fifty, a hundred, a thousand, a hundred thousand, many eons of cosmic contraction, many eons of cosmic expansion, many eons of cosmic contraction & expansion: 'There I had such a name, belonged to such a clan, had such an appearance. Such was my food, such my experience of pleasure & pain, such the end of my life. Passing away from that state, I re-arose there. There too I had such a name, belonged to such a clan, had such an appearance. Such was my food, such my experience of pleasure & pain, such the end of my life. Passing away from that state, I re-arose here.' Thus I remembered my manifold past lives in their modes & details.
"This was the first knowledge I attained in the first watch of the night. Ignorance was destroyed; knowledge arose; darkness was destroyed; light arose — as happens in one who is heedful, ardent, & resolute.
"When the mind was thus concentrated, purified, bright, unblemished, rid of defilement, pliant, malleable, steady, & attained to imperturbability, I directed it to the knowledge of the passing away & reappearance of beings. I saw — by means of the divine eye, purified & surpassing the human — beings passing away & re-appearing, and I discerned how they are inferior & superior, beautiful & ugly, fortunate & unfortunate in accordance with their kamma: 'These beings — who were endowed with bad conduct of body, speech & mind, who reviled the Noble Ones, held wrong views and undertook actions under the influence of wrong views — with the break-up of the body, after death, have re-appeared in the plane of deprivation, the bad destination, the lower realms, in hell. But these beings — who were endowed with good conduct of body, speech, & mind, who did not revile the Noble Ones, who held right views and undertook actions under the influence of right views — with the break-up of the body, after death, have re-appeared in the good destinations, in the heavenly world.' Thus — by means of the divine eye, purified & surpassing the human — I saw beings passing away & re-appearing, and I discerned how they are inferior & superior, beautiful & ugly, fortunate & unfortunate in accordance with their kamma.
"This was the second knowledge I attained in the second watch of the night. Ignorance was destroyed; knowledge arose; darkness was destroyed; light arose — as happens in one who is heedful, ardent, & resolute.
"When the mind was thus concentrated, purified, bright, unblemished, rid of defilement, pliant, malleable, steady, & attained to imperturbability, I directed it to the knowledge of the ending of the mental fermentations. I discerned, as it had come to be, that 'This is stress... This is the origination of stress... This is the cessation of stress... This is the way leading to the cessation of stress... These are fermentations... This is the origination of fermentations... This is the cessation of fermentations... This is the way leading to the cessation of fermentations.' My heart, thus knowing, thus seeing, was released from the fermentation of sensuality, released from the fermentation of becoming, released from the fermentation of ignorance. With release, there was the knowledge, 'Released.' I discerned that 'Birth is ended, the holy life fulfilled, the task done. There is nothing further for this world.'
"This was the third knowledge I attained in the third watch of the night. Ignorance was destroyed; knowledge arose; darkness was destroyed; light arose — as happens in one who is heedful, ardent, & resolute.
"Suppose, monks, that in a forested wilderness there were a large low-lying marsh, in dependence on which there lived a large herd of deer; and a certain man were to appear, not desiring their benefit, not desiring their welfare, not desiring their rest from bondage. He would close off the safe, restful path that led to their rapture, and would open up a false path, set out a male decoy, place a female decoy, and thus the large herd of deer would eventually fall into ruin, disaster, & decimation. Then suppose that a certain man were to appear to that same large herd of deer, desiring their benefit, desiring their welfare, desiring their rest from bondage. He would open up the safe, restful path that led to their rapture, would close off the false path, take away the male decoy, destroy the female decoy, and thus the large herd of deer would eventually come into growth, increase, & abundance.
"I have given this simile in order to convey a meaning. The meaning is this: 'The large, low-lying marsh' stands for sensuality. 'The large herd of deer' stands for beings. 'The man not desiring their benefit, not desiring their welfare, not desiring their rest from bondage' stands for Mara, the Evil One. 'The false path' stands for the eightfold wrong path, i.e., wrong view, wrong resolve, wrong speech, wrong action, wrong livelihood, wrong effort, wrong mindfulness, & wrong concentration. 'The male decoy' stands for passion & delight. 'The female decoy' stands for ignorance. 'The man desiring their benefit, desiring their welfare, desiring their rest from bondage' stands for the Tathagata, the Worthy One, the Rightly Self-awakened One. 'The safe, restful path that led to their rapture' stands for the noble eightfold path, i.e., right view, right resolve, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, & right concentration.
"So, monks, I have opened up the safe, restful path, closed off the false path, removed the male decoy, destroyed the female. Whatever a teacher should do — seeking the welfare of his disciples, out of sympathy for them — that have I done for you. Over there are the roots of trees; over there, empty dwellings. Practice jhana, monks. Don't be heedless. Don't later fall into regret. This is our message to you."
That is what the Blessed One said. Gratified, the monks delighted in the Blessed One's words.
(MN 19)
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January 4
-"Skillful Thinking: The Fundamentals of Skillful Thinking"
-the Buddha's path is pragmatic. it's a path of developing skills. the skill of skillful thinking is integral to the path. through developing skillful thinking we are able to shape our lives, we are able to live with wisdom & compassion, we are able to know the happiness of heart. the path also is proactive. it is a path of practice. we learn about the mind by practicing with it, by learning to put it to good use. we are able to develop in this skill by putting the effort into practice. certain fundamentals are essential to our practice. in cultivating skillful thinking we are cultivating thinking informed by the dharma, by the heart. we are cultivating thoughts in tune with compassion, lovingkindness, joy, and equanimity. importantly, in cultivating skillful thinking we abide by the Buddha's injunction to keep it simple, to not over fabricate. we learn, in doing so, to touch in to thinking that is skillful. if we put the effort into this practice, we bring about transformation.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in our ability to practice with "the fundamentals of skillful thinking"...
1-the practice of skillful thinking is pragmatic.....
-it is a skill that we learn to develop.....
-it is a skill that we learn to apply in meditation....
-it is a skill that we learn to apply in all our postures, in all the activities of our lives....
-just as we learn to guide the meditation with our thinking....
-we learn to guide our actions as we go through the day ... with our thinking.....
2- we learn to develop skillful thinking through practice.....
-as with all skills we develop this skill through practice....
-making the effort to fabricate skillful thinking ... in all postures....
-we learn, by using the mind, by practice, about the mind.....
-we learn how to put the mind to good use....
-we learn how to fabricate skillfully ... in the service of abandoning suffering and knowing happiness of heart....
3-skillful thinking is thinking informed by the dharma.....
-our tendency ... our habit ... is to think unskillfully....
-this is our past karma....
-we pursue thinking informed by desire & aversion....
-in cultivating skillful thinking we proactively fabricate thinking informed by the dharma....
-by the heart....
-by the sublime attitudes....
-compassion....
-lovingkindness....
-joy....
-equanimity....
4-skillful intention is a key skill in the skill of skillful thinking.....
-we seek to set skillful intention ... in all our actions.....
-skillful intention is informed by....
-compassion (our wish to be free from suffering).....
-lovingkindness (our wish to be happy of heart).....
-we set skillful intention by....
-seeing how the mind is....
-seeing unskillful intention....
-setting skillful intention....
-fabricating skillful intention....
-internal verbal fabrication....
5-in cultivating thinking that is skillful there are some basic rules of thumb......
-as the Buddha indicates, in cultivating skillful thinking....
-we keep it simple....
-we're careful not to engender an excessive amount of thought....
-we touch into skillful thoughts....
-after touching in, we center ourselves in the breath.....
-in fabricating skillful thinking....
-we pay attention to the affect....
-how we are saying the words....
-the tone of the inner voice....
-we cultivate a quality of sincerity, earnestness....
-we understand what the words mean....
-we know the 'subtext'....
-for example, in using the word compassion we have a sense that this means we have a wish for the heart to be free from its burdens....
-as dharma students, over time, we learn to develop, by using words, a sense of the subtext....
6-as we practice skillful thinking we become sensitive to when thinking is skillful......
-we learn, by being mindful of the body, to know whether thinking is skillful or unskillful....
-when thinking is unskillful....
-there is a quality of dis-ease in the body.....
-when thinking is skillful.....
-there is a quality of ease in the body....
-when thinking is skillful, we have a felt sense of the heart....
-there is happiness of heart.....
-reading.....
We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world.
Speak or act with an impure mind
And trouble will follow you
As the wheel follows the ox that draws the cart.
We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world.
Speak or act with a pure mind
And happiness will follow you
As your shadow, unshakable.
"Look how he abused me and hurt me,
How he threw me down and robbed me."
Live with such thoughts and you live in hate.
"Look how he abused me and hurt me,
How he threw me down and robbed me."
Abandon such thoughts, and live in love.
In this world
Hate never yet dispelled hate.
Only love dispels hate.
This is the law,
Ancient and inexhaustible.
You too shall pass away.
Knowing this,
how can you quarrel?
How easily the wind overturns a frail tree.
Seek happiness in the senses,
Indulge in food and sleep,
And you too will be uprooted.
The wind cannot overturn a mountain.
Temptation cannot touch the man
Who is awake, strong and humble,
Who masters himself and minds the dharma.
If a man's thoughts are muddy,
If he is reckless and full of deceit,
How can he wear the yellow robe?
Whoever is master of his own nature,
Bright, clear and true,
He may indeed wear the yellow robe.
Mistaking the false for the true,
And the true for the false,
You overlook the heart
And fill yourself with desire.
See the false as false,
The true as true.
Look into your heart.
Follow your nature.
An unreflecting mind is a poor roof.
Passion, like the rain, floods the house.
But if the roof is strong, there is shelter.
Whoever follows impure thoughts
Suffers in this world and the next.
In both worlds he suffers
And how greatly
When he sees the wrong he has done.
But whoever follows the dharma
Is joyful here and joyful there.
In both worlds he rejoices
And how greatly
When he sees the good he has done.
For great is the harvest in this world,
And greater still in the next.
However many holy words you read,
However many you speak,
What good will they do you If you do not act upon them?
Are you a shepherd
Who counts another man's sheep,
Never sharing the way?
Read as few words as you like,
And speak fewer.
But act upon the dharma.
Give up the old ways –
Passion, enmity, folly.
Know the truth and find peace.
Share the way.
(Dhp 1)
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with non-ill will arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with non-ill will has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with harmlessness arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with harmlessness has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"Whatever a monk keeps pursuing with his thinking & pondering, that becomes the inclination of his awareness. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with renunciation, abandoning thinking imbued with sensuality, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with renunciation. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with non-ill will, abandoning thinking imbued with ill will, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with non-ill will. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with harmlessness, abandoning thinking imbued with harmfulness, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with harmlessness.
"Just as in the last month of the hot season, when all the crops have been gathered into the village, a cowherd would look after his cows: While resting under the shade of a tree or out in the open, he simply keeps himself mindful of 'those cows.' In the same way, I simply kept myself mindful of 'those mental qualities.'"
(MN 19)
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-"Skillful Thinking: The Fundamentals of Skillful Thinking"
-the Buddha's path is pragmatic. it's a path of developing skills. the skill of skillful thinking is integral to the path. through developing skillful thinking we are able to shape our lives, we are able to live with wisdom & compassion, we are able to know the happiness of heart. the path also is proactive. it is a path of practice. we learn about the mind by practicing with it, by learning to put it to good use. we are able to develop in this skill by putting the effort into practice. certain fundamentals are essential to our practice. in cultivating skillful thinking we are cultivating thinking informed by the dharma, by the heart. we are cultivating thoughts in tune with compassion, lovingkindness, joy, and equanimity. importantly, in cultivating skillful thinking we abide by the Buddha's injunction to keep it simple, to not over fabricate. we learn, in doing so, to touch in to thinking that is skillful. if we put the effort into this practice, we bring about transformation.
-some things to to remember as we learn to develop in our ability to practice with "the fundamentals of skillful thinking"...
1-the practice of skillful thinking is pragmatic.....
-it is a skill that we learn to develop.....
-it is a skill that we learn to apply in meditation....
-it is a skill that we learn to apply in all our postures, in all the activities of our lives....
-just as we learn to guide the meditation with our thinking....
-we learn to guide our actions as we go through the day ... with our thinking.....
2- we learn to develop skillful thinking through practice.....
-as with all skills we develop this skill through practice....
-making the effort to fabricate skillful thinking ... in all postures....
-we learn, by using the mind, by practice, about the mind.....
-we learn how to put the mind to good use....
-we learn how to fabricate skillfully ... in the service of abandoning suffering and knowing happiness of heart....
3-skillful thinking is thinking informed by the dharma.....
-our tendency ... our habit ... is to think unskillfully....
-this is our past karma....
-we pursue thinking informed by desire & aversion....
-in cultivating skillful thinking we proactively fabricate thinking informed by the dharma....
-by the heart....
-by the sublime attitudes....
-compassion....
-lovingkindness....
-joy....
-equanimity....
4-skillful intention is a key skill in the skill of skillful thinking.....
-we seek to set skillful intention ... in all our actions.....
-skillful intention is informed by....
-compassion (our wish to be free from suffering).....
-lovingkindness (our wish to be happy of heart).....
-we set skillful intention by....
-seeing how the mind is....
-seeing unskillful intention....
-setting skillful intention....
-fabricating skillful intention....
-internal verbal fabrication....
5-in cultivating thinking that is skillful there are some basic rules of thumb......
-as the Buddha indicates, in cultivating skillful thinking....
-we keep it simple....
-we're careful not to engender an excessive amount of thought....
-we touch into skillful thoughts....
-after touching in, we center ourselves in the breath.....
-in fabricating skillful thinking....
-we pay attention to the affect....
-how we are saying the words....
-the tone of the inner voice....
-we cultivate a quality of sincerity, earnestness....
-we understand what the words mean....
-we know the 'subtext'....
-for example, in using the word compassion we have a sense that this means we have a wish for the heart to be free from its burdens....
-as dharma students, over time, we learn to develop, by using words, a sense of the subtext....
6-as we practice skillful thinking we become sensitive to when thinking is skillful......
-we learn, by being mindful of the body, to know whether thinking is skillful or unskillful....
-when thinking is unskillful....
-there is a quality of dis-ease in the body.....
-when thinking is skillful.....
-there is a quality of ease in the body....
-when thinking is skillful, we have a felt sense of the heart....
-there is happiness of heart.....
-reading.....
We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world.
Speak or act with an impure mind
And trouble will follow you
As the wheel follows the ox that draws the cart.
We are what we think.
All that we are arises with our thoughts.
With our thoughts we make the world.
Speak or act with a pure mind
And happiness will follow you
As your shadow, unshakable.
"Look how he abused me and hurt me,
How he threw me down and robbed me."
Live with such thoughts and you live in hate.
"Look how he abused me and hurt me,
How he threw me down and robbed me."
Abandon such thoughts, and live in love.
In this world
Hate never yet dispelled hate.
Only love dispels hate.
This is the law,
Ancient and inexhaustible.
You too shall pass away.
Knowing this,
how can you quarrel?
How easily the wind overturns a frail tree.
Seek happiness in the senses,
Indulge in food and sleep,
And you too will be uprooted.
The wind cannot overturn a mountain.
Temptation cannot touch the man
Who is awake, strong and humble,
Who masters himself and minds the dharma.
If a man's thoughts are muddy,
If he is reckless and full of deceit,
How can he wear the yellow robe?
Whoever is master of his own nature,
Bright, clear and true,
He may indeed wear the yellow robe.
Mistaking the false for the true,
And the true for the false,
You overlook the heart
And fill yourself with desire.
See the false as false,
The true as true.
Look into your heart.
Follow your nature.
An unreflecting mind is a poor roof.
Passion, like the rain, floods the house.
But if the roof is strong, there is shelter.
Whoever follows impure thoughts
Suffers in this world and the next.
In both worlds he suffers
And how greatly
When he sees the wrong he has done.
But whoever follows the dharma
Is joyful here and joyful there.
In both worlds he rejoices
And how greatly
When he sees the good he has done.
For great is the harvest in this world,
And greater still in the next.
However many holy words you read,
However many you speak,
What good will they do you If you do not act upon them?
Are you a shepherd
Who counts another man's sheep,
Never sharing the way?
Read as few words as you like,
And speak fewer.
But act upon the dharma.
Give up the old ways –
Passion, enmity, folly.
Know the truth and find peace.
Share the way.
(Dhp 1)
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with non-ill will arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with non-ill will has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"And as I remained thus heedful, ardent, & resolute, thinking imbued with harmlessness arose in me. I discerned that 'Thinking imbued with harmlessness has arisen in me; and that leads neither to my own affliction, nor to the affliction of others, nor to the affliction of both. It fosters discernment, promotes lack of vexation, & leads to Unbinding. If I were to think & ponder in line with that even for a night... even for a day... even for a day & night, I do not envision any danger that would come from it, except that thinking & pondering a long time would tire the body. When the body is tired, the mind is disturbed; and a disturbed mind is far from concentration.' So I steadied my mind right within, settled, unified, & concentrated it. Why is that? So that my mind would not be disturbed.
"Whatever a monk keeps pursuing with his thinking & pondering, that becomes the inclination of his awareness. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with renunciation, abandoning thinking imbued with sensuality, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with renunciation. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with non-ill will, abandoning thinking imbued with ill will, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with non-ill will. If a monk keeps pursuing thinking imbued with harmlessness, abandoning thinking imbued with harmfulness, his mind is bent by that thinking imbued with harmlessness.
"Just as in the last month of the hot season, when all the crops have been gathered into the village, a cowherd would look after his cows: While resting under the shade of a tree or out in the open, he simply keeps himself mindful of 'those cows.' In the same way, I simply kept myself mindful of 'those mental qualities.'"
(MN 19)
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